On The Occasion Of The End Of ``Don'T Ask, Don'T Tell''
Mr. Speaker, yesterday the military's ``Don't Ask, Don't Tell'' (DADT) policy officially ended. Yesterday, J.D. Smith, a 25 year-old Air Force officer and gay rights advocate could drop his pseudonym and come out as who he is--1st…
Mr. Speaker, yesterday the military's ``Don't Ask, Don't Tell'' (DADT) policy officially ended.
Yesterday, J.D. Smith, a 25 year-old Air Force officer and gay rights advocate could drop his pseudonym and come out as who he is--1st Lieutenant Josh Seefried.
Yesterday, Maj. Darrel Choat, a gay Marine officer wrote in The Washington Post: ``I am a patriotic American. I am an officer who loves country and Corps. I am doing my best to serve honorably and proudly. And I happen to be gay.''
Yesterday, a policy that since 1993 has led to over 14,000 servicemembers being fired simply for being open about their sexual orientation officially ended, allowing Major Choat, 1st Lt. Seefried and thousands of other servicemembers to continue their service in the U.S. military without having to hide who they are.
Policies like ``Don't Ask, Don't Tell'', which created an atmosphere of fear and mistrust among colleagues serving side-by-side, have no place in the military.
I applaud the official end of ``Don't Ask, Don't Tell'' and the significance of its repeal in ensuring equality in our military and in securing rights for members of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender community.
When Will Marine Leadership Stand Up for Gay Service Members?
(By Darrel Choat)
If President Obama could have ended ``don't ask, don't
tell'' by announcing a policy change, rather than his intent
to work with Congress to repeal the law, in his 2010 State of
the Union address, I might have served in the Marines openly
but quietly. But the repeal debate turned ugly, and as gay
veterans and gay soldiers and Marines serving in Iraq and
Afghanistan were disrespected by military and civilian
leaders, I realized that a quiet transition was not an
honorable course of action.
Remarks by senior Marine leaders made clear that their
conception of ``Marine'' did not include those who were gay.
During and following his confirmation hearings in fall 2010,
Commandant Gen. James F. Amos said that he did not want his
Marines dying because of a ``distraction.'' He probably meant
that managing the repeal would be a distraction, but many gay
Marines, myself included, felt that Amos was saying that we
were the distraction that would get our fellow Marines
killed. Given the number of gay Marines in combat, this
comment was deeply hurtful.
I am a patriotic American. I am an officer who loves
country and Corps. I am doing my best to serve honorably and
proudly. And I happen to be gay.
My challenge is not to simply acknowledge my sexuality as a
Marine officer but for my actions to reflect the legacy of
the Declaration of Independence--that all Americans are
created equal and deserve equal consideration from their
government. My task is to demand no less from my country and
Corps. I understand that my statements will prompt anger and
disgust among some active-duty and retired Marines. History
demonstrates, however, that deliberate steps are necessary to
overcome the legacy of dishonor and prejudice such as that
inspired by ``don't ask, don't tell.'' I have confidence that
my Corps will take those steps.
While working in the Senate in the 1990s, I remember Sen.
Jesse Helms (R-N.C.) taking to the floor and disparaging the
``agenda'' of gays and their ``sinful'' and ``deviant''
behavior. I felt helpless. One day Helms stepped into an
elevator in which I alone was riding. Slowly, I realized no
words could be adequate to confront him. His hate and
ignorance could not be rationally discussed. The only
effective course, it seemed to me, would be to disprove him
by example, by personifying a proud, honorable and gay
American who--simply by existing--refuted Helms's
demagoguery.
I came out to my family years earlier, and I had long been
in the habit of letting co-workers become aware of my sexual
orientation. Often I made no pronouncements. Engaging in
honest discussions about weekend activities or personal
relationships was all that was necessary. My guiding
principle was simple: If I felt I had to say something or
compromise out of fear or shame because I was gay, I had to
stop and take the honest course. If I got fired, I got fired.
No job was worth the sacrifice of my honor and courage.
In 1981, I had been awarded a four-year Marine Corps
Reserve Officer Training Corps scholarship. I was aware that
I was different--I hated being different--and I was self-
conscious. I found it difficult to interact with other
midshipmen and Marines, so I left the program. In 1997,
however, I knew that ``don't ask, don't tell'' did not
preclude my service; it simply required that I shut up about
being gay. So I applied and was accepted to attend Officer
Candidate School in Quantico in October 1997. I greatly
underestimated the personal cost of this compromise.
After the Battle of Saipan in 1944, Marine Commandant Gen.
Alexander Vandegrift said, ``The Negro Marines are no longer
on trial. They are Marines, period.'' His predecessor, Gen.
Thomas Holcomb, had said that ``Negroes did not have the
right to demand a place in the corps'' and that ``If it were
a question of having a Marine Corps of 5,000 whites or
250,000 Negroes, I would rather have the whites.'' It took
leadership for Vandegrift to recognize the heroic service of
African American Marines and end officially sanctioned
segregation in the Corps.
While Sgt. Maj. Micheal Barrett, the service's senior
enlisted official, clearly stated in June that a Marine is a
Marine, regardless of sexual orientation, I am aware of no
senior Marine officer who has followed Vandegrift's lead and
set a leadership tone that will turn the page on the
prejudice of the past. A January video by Amos and Barrett's
predecessor, Sgt. Maj. Carlton Kent, sent the message simply
that the don't-ask law has changed and that Marines follow
the law. Action to overcome the legacy of ``don't ask, don't
tell'' is still necessary.
Vandegrift is an example of the possible. With the formal
repeal today of ``don't ask, don't tell,'' it is time for the
Marine Corps to end the bigotry and prejudice regarding
sexual orientation and to give Marines, combat veterans and
Purple Heart recipients the respect and consideration they
have earned. Marine Maj. Darrel Choat, a student at the
Marine Corps University in Quantico, is the author of a
report and personal essay in ``The End of Don't Ask, Don't
Tell,'' a forthcoming book from Marine Corps University
Press. The views expressed here are his own.