Madam Speaker, from June 29 to August 1, 2007 I asked members of the Suffield, CT, community to share their opinion on changing the name of the local post office to honor Cpl Stephen R. Bixler. During that period, my office received over…
Madam Speaker, from June 29 to August 1, 2007 I asked members of the Suffield, CT, community to share their opinion on changing the name of the local post office to honor Cpl Stephen R. Bixler. During that period, my office received over 170 letters, calls and e-mails in overwhelming support of the idea. The comments I received described a thoughtful and compassionate man who wanted nothing more than to serve his Nation and make a difference for his community, and I wanted to take a moment and share some excerpts with my colleagues.
``Being the very proud and saddened grandmother of Cpl
Stephen R. Bixler, renaming the Suffield Post Office in his
honor would be a special tribute, keeping his memory alive
for all who knew, loved, and respected him. He gave his life
to secure our freedom.''--Cpl Bixler's grandmother.
``Stephen Bixler was a close friend of mine, in which I
served with during Operation Iraqi Freedom with 3rd Battalion
8th Marines. During this period, Stephen showed what it meant
to be a Marine through his hard work and dedication to the
Marine Corps and in making the quality of living for the
Iraqi people better. From when he was a Boy Scout, Stephen
went out of his way to provide service to others. Being part
of the Boy Scouts, Stephen was able to excel in all that he
did leading him to earn Eagle Scout. Stephen decided to serve
his country and protect others by joining the United States
Marine Corps. In the Marine Corps, Stephen utilized his
outstanding qualities of selflessness, determination, and
dedication to the job at hand. Stephen strived to be the best
at everything that he did. When 3rd Battalion 8th Marines
returned state-side, Stephen volunteered to return with 2nd
Reconnaissance Battalion for a second tour of duty in Iraq.
He successfully completed his first of many schools when 2nd
Recon Battalion asked for volunteers to leave to go back to
Iraq. Stephen jumped at the opportunity and did it
courageously. Before Stephen left, he told me that he did not
think that he would make it back this time. Stephen went to
many schools in Suffield, CT, when he was home and loved to
talk to the students about his experiences. Stephen went on
the deployment and lost his life in Fallujah, Iraq doing what
he loved.
During the time I knew Stephen, I saw that he was a
courageous and selfless individual by his actions. He changed
the life of everyone whom he came in contact with. His
service in the Marine Corps and in Boy Scouts made a lasting
impression on Suffield, Connecticut residents, and on to all
those who knew him. Stephen's loss has deeply impacted his
family and those who had the pleasure of voting for him.''--A
fellow marine who served with Cpl Bixler.
Stephen gave his life selflessly while serving his second
tour of duty in Fallujah, Iraq on May 4, 2006. Stephen served
our country proudly knowing that the risk to himself was of
the highest level and yet he went straight for the front
lines. It is important to note that Stephen was given the
Medal of Valor for his final act which saved the lives of
his fellow marines traveling through a desperate area of
the Al Anbar providence. It was Stephen who noticed the
danger along the route and who stopped his caravan to
investigate and mitigate the danger.
Stephen was a valuable member of our community as a young
person who was always willing to give of himself as a Boy
Scout (Eagle Scout rank), a member of the St. Joseph's
Church, and as a friend who was filling to volunteer to help
whenever the opportunity arose.
Stephen's willingness to help his community was not limited
to Suffield, CT. His devotion to the Marines was Stephen's
way to serve our country on behalf of us all.
Just before he returned to Iraq for his second tour of
duty, I asked Stephen why he felt he needed to return. His
response was simple. He said that the Iraqi people needed his
help. He told me that after a few days of the Marine presence
in the small towns of the Anbar Province that children
returned to play and that people were back at work in the
shadow of security provided by Steve and his fellow marines.
Steve was humble in his view of his profound work.''--Friend
of Cpl Bixler.
Stephen Bixler was a close friend to both my husband and I,
whom my husband served with during Operation Iraqi III 04-06.
I had the privilege of knowing Stephen outside the United
States Marine Corps. Stephen was a hardworking, dedicated and
thoughtful individual. He always thought of others before
throwing himself into the mix. His family and friends always
came first. He exemplified what it meant to be a great
friend, a great Marine, and a great leader. I only know the
stories from Iraq either from my husband or his brother. They
talked nothing of greatness and leadership. Stephen knew what
he was doing, loved what he was doing and was passionate
about being a Marine. Stephen became like a brother to me.
Staying at our house and helping my husband out when
something needed to be fixed. He was never afraid to get his
hands dirty. He always came with a smile and left with one.
His attitude was always positive even on those tough days at
work.
Knowing Stephen made me a better person today. There is not
a day that goes by that I do not walk past the pictures we
have hanging in his memory or a night that I fall asleep that
I am not thinking of him. He was a loved individual with so
much to offer. His loss will always leave a lasting
impression not only in Suffield but everyone that he reached
out to.''--Friend of Cpl Bixler.
Stephen Bixler was a close friend of both my brother and I,
whom my brother served with during Operation Iraqi Freedom
III 04-06. I also had the privilege of serving with Stephen
Bixler in Camp Fallujah during this deployment. During this
period, Stephen exemplified what it meant to be a Marine and
a citizen soldier through his hard work and dedication to
helping to improve the standard of living for numerous Iraqi
families.'' ``During the short time that I knew Stephen,
I learned that he was a caring and selfless individual by his
actions. His life impacted those he came in contact with,
extending beyond his friends and family. His service to
others made a lasting impression not only on Suffield,
Connecticut residents, but it extended to the citizens of
Iraq and fellow service members within the armed forces.
Stephen's loss has deeply impacted those that knew him and
his family.''--Friend of Cpl. Bixler.
``We knew him as a wonderful friend, student, track
teammate, and overall outstanding citizen. Please help
facilitate this honor to his memory.''--Friends of the Bixler
Family.
``A unique way of remembering our own and the tremendous
price families pay for something others may take so
lightly.''
``Steve was an exceptional young man that my wife and I
knew well. He attended our church and was an altar boy. His
dream was always to be a Marine and he gave his life in the
service of his country doing what he wanted to do. We have
shared many moments with his mom and dad, Linda and Richard,
grieving over the loss of someone so young.''--Friend of Cpl.
Bixler.
``In my opinion, there would be no better way to honor both
Stephen and his family than by renaming the Post Office.
Stephen is a hero, and I believe this is the very least he
deserves for the sacrifice that he has made for his country.
It is now our turn to repay our respect and honor by renaming
the Suffield Post Office in Cpl. Bixler's name.''--Friend of
Cpl. Bixler.
``My senior year I attained a car for the first time and I
would drive Steve to practice and home at the end of the day.
We got along great, we could always make each other laugh at
the littlest things and others on the tram would laugh with
us. We used to hang out so much the athletic director didn't
realize I was two years older than Steve. I had a great time
with him and I will truly miss him. Steve was a great
student and enjoyed by everyone, he was a talented young
man.''--Friend of Cpl. Bixler.
``Stephen Bixler was one of my older brother's closest
friends. They ran cross-country and track together in high
school and I remember always going to the meets and watching
them compete. Steve was quite possibly one of the nicest guys
on the team, if not the entire high school. Stephen entering
the Marines and defending his country was something he felt
passionately about. I support your idea to rename the Post
Office in memory and honor of Stephen Bixler. What he did for
our country may not be known to many people throughout the
country, but it is widely known throughout our town and I
believe that this renaming would be an honor in his family's
eyes.''--Friend of Cpl. Bixler.
``Stephen graduated from Suffield High School in 2003, 2
years after our son and one year before our daughter. He and
our son Jon were good friends, having competed together in
Cross Country and Track & Field at Suffield High. During the
years that Jon had his license, and Steve was still too
young, Steve was the one exclusive passenger who was picked
up each morning on the way to school and returned home each
evening after a meet or practice. The two of them, and the
old truck they rode in back and forth to school, were men on
a mission who could only be deterred by the chance to do
`donuts' in an empty high school parking lot with a fresh
covering of snow!
``During the summer, they were part of a small group on the
Cross Country team who attended running camp in Vermont. They
always enjoyed entertaining us with the stories they brought
home about the camp antics and the occasional practical
jokes.'' ``Steve was a model student, with a warm personality
and a great sense of humor. He was also quiet and serious
with a great respect for his family and country. All during
high school, Steve's friends knew his first dream was to be a
U.S. Marine. When many of his friends left for the
`footloose' life of being new college students, Steve left
for the most difficult job--Marine training. As a marine,
Steve's assignments throughout the world had one cause and
that was to assist people in need. Steve was a young man that
any parent would be honored to have as a son.''--Parents of
one of Bixler's close friends.
``The Iraq war is not a subject that comes and goes--it is
always on the air. Its everlasting presence reminds me of
Stephen Bixler--in my studies, watching the news, even
conducting research at work.
``Naming the post office after Steve would not just be an
honor to Steve but also a gift to the people of Suffield.
Though we can never bring Steve back, and no building can
compensate for his death, feeling like we have paid tribute
to Steve is a necessary part of the community's healing.''
``I graduated High School with Stephen Bixler and
considered him a friend. I remember going to Stephen's house
to play when I was very young and I remember riding the bus
with him for as long as I can remember. For all of my years
as a student in Suffield, I can remember Stephen's house was
always extensively decorated by his mother. When these
decorations went from hoping for his return, to mourning his
loss, the effect was well felt throughout the community in
the deepest, most heartfelt way. Stephen was well liked and
greatly respected, and will forever be appreciated. As long
as Stephen's family supports the honor then I believe nothing
should stand in the way of this.''--Classmate and friend of
Cpl. Bixler.
``Stephen was my cousin. He lost his life fighting for us
in Iraq. Stephen loved what he did, being a Marine. He lost
his life doing what he loved. Growing up, Stephen emulated
the ``All American Kid''. An athlete, a scholar and Eagle
Scout. He defined what all Marines should strive to be. Aside
from all these things, Stephen was a son, a brother, and a
friend to many. He has made our family proud, and anyone who
knew him. Anyone who didn't know him missed out on a
wonderful person.''--Cousin of Cpl. Bixler.
``As a former classmate and teammate of Corporal Stephen R.
Bixler, I can attest to his deserving the honor of the
Suffield Post Office name. Steve was a valued member of every
team, class, and organization that he participated in. He was
always there to encourage creativity, determination, and
strength in the people around him. Steve lived his dream by
joining the Marines. He seemed to have found a home in his
service. As a Marine, he was able to stand out from the
crowd, just as he did as an athlete and intellectual. Steve
deserves this honor because he gave his life for his country.
Steve deserves this honor because he was one of America's
finest soldiers. However, Steve mostly deserves this honor
because of who he was as a person. He was kind and sought out
the best in those around him. He was an inspiration to
everyone and that is why the Suffield Post Office should be
named the Corporal Stephen R. Bixler Post Office.''--
Classmate of Cpl. Bixler.