IN MEMORY OF 1LT ALMAR LaRON FITZGERALD
Mr. Speaker, on March 4, 2006, I attended the funeral of Almar LaRon Fitzgerald, an American soldier from Lexington, South Carolina, who gave his life while serving his country in Iraq. This hero of Lexington County who graduated from The…
Mr. Speaker, on March 4, 2006, I attended the funeral of Almar LaRon Fitzgerald, an American soldier from Lexington, South Carolina, who gave his life while serving his country in Iraq. This hero of Lexington County who graduated from The Citadel was lovingly eulogized at the Lexington Baptist Church by Pastor Ken Jumper of The Harvest Church of Lexington. Pastor Jumper, with a family of military service, provided an inspiring lesson of hope.
The Funeral Service of LT Almar LaRon Fitzgerald Lexington Baptist
Church
And Jesus said to her, ``I am the resurrection and the
life. He who believes in Me will live, even though he dies;
and whoever lives and believes in Me will never die. Do you
believe this?''
As we were singing this last song, I was reminded of this
scripture where we are given the promise of eternal life. And
yes, we believe this.
I would like to thank the family for allowing me the
opportunity to share in these moments with them, and my
thoughts and prayers are certainly with you.
If I were to say today how I really felt inside, I would
have to say, ``It just ain't right''. But my part today is to
bring, and I have been asked to bring, ``words of comfort''.
With that said, we must understand today that our comfort
will not be found in the context of human understanding. As a
pastor, I am often called upon to explain the unexplainable,
but the unexplainable remains unexplained even after I have
said my piece. There are no real explanations as to why a
quality young man should leave life so early in the day.
However, our comfort today will be found in the context of
our faith. You see that is why we came to the church, sang
some hymns, called a preacher and read some scripture. We
understand that in moments like these we call upon our
faith--a faith that transcends our human understanding and
grief.
We look to the God unseen and an eternity yet unrealized to
anchor our hope. The faith I speak of today is more than just
a general faith in God. It is a specific faith that finds its
foundation in the person of Jesus Christ.
As I pondered my thoughts for today, I was reminded of the
first family created by God. Adam and Eve, the first family,
lost a son. Their son was also lost through an act of
seemingly meaningless violence. And at that time, they had to
deal with the emotions you and I are dealing with today--the
questions of why, feelings of loss and grief, and wondering
where do we go from here. They had to make some sense and
reconcile these thoughts of pain, loss and grief with God and
eternal things.
Today as we think of Almar LaRon Fitzgerald and the life he
lived--a life that served, a life that was savored and well
lived, and ultimately a life that was sacrificed--I would
like for us to turn our attention to ``another Son'' that was
sacrificed.
Adam and Eve had a son that was lost, and God gave them
another son. They named him Seth, and it was in and through
this son they were to find hope. It was through ``another
son,'' Seth, that Jesus Christ was to be born. If you follow
the genealogy of Christ backwards you will find this to be
true. And today, it is through this Son, God's Son Jesus
Christ, that you and I will find our comfort and consolation
from today.
I wish I could explain the unexplainable today. Let me tell
you what I do know. Let me tell you what I do know to be
True, Reliable and Eternal. I know that God is Love. He is,
He has been and He always will be. God created a world of
peace and harmony with no violence, sickness or pain.
Unfortunately, mankind fell and chose to live their lives
their own way. Therefore, we live in a fallen world today--
one that has sickness, pain and death. We must be careful
that we do not allow our pain and hurt to turn to bitterness
against others or against the God who does love us and care
for us.
For you see, it was right in the middle of this fallen
world that God dropped a cross, planted it in the ground and
hung His Only Son upon it. A cross that stands between heaven
and earth. A cross that helps us reconcile life and eternity.
A cross that helps us bear up under the burden of pain and
grief. A cross where Jesus died, sacrificially giving His
life for another. I remember as well, as I think of Almar' s
sacrifice, there is no greater love than this, that a man
would lay down his life for another. So you and I can look to
this cross and find the comfort and hope we need in order to
navigate this life.
We find in this cross two arenas of hope. First of all, the
hope of eternal life. For all those who have accepted Christ
and believe in Him, there is the promise of life after death.
You see, we who believe will see Almar again. There is life
beyond this life. This is the hope and comfort we can have
today.
Now we have the promise of eternal life, but we also have
the promise of a Comforter. Jesus promised that He would be
with us. He would comfort us. He would never leave us or
forsake us. So during the days and weeks ahead and during the
dark nights when no one is there, He will be there. He will
be with me and comfort me in my darkness and most difficult
moment! Can I get a witness in the place today?
This is the hope we have: Jesus and His presence will be
with me and strengthen me, day by day until `that day'. So we
look to the cross and the Son. This is where we find our hope
and peace.
We also find the grace to forgive at the cross. So we must
today forgive those who have hurt us.
The Bible tells us that the power of the cross removes the
sting of death. Death has no hold on us. As death went to
catch Almar in its grip, poof, he was gone. Death looked
around and could not find him. Jesus said those who believe
in me will never taste, experience, death.
And as we forgive, we find peace. Interestingly, Almar gave
his life for peace. So we must forgive others, even as Jesus
hung on the cross and said, ``Father forgive them, they don't
understand.'' May we become peacemakers today.
Finally out of this comfort, may we find courage. The
courage to get up and go on with our lives, learning to live
life to its fullest. The courage to forgive others and be
peacemakers. And the courage to accept Jesus Christ and forge
a path through life that others can recognize and follow.
Now may the peace and grace of Jesus Christ be with us all.
Amen and Amen!