Mr. Speaker, I move to suspend the rules and agree to the resolution (H. Res. 318) supporting responsible fatherhood, promoting marriage, and encouraging greater involvement of fathers in the lives…
Mr. Speaker, I move to suspend the rules and agree to the resolution (H. Res. 318) supporting responsible fatherhood, promoting marriage, and encouraging greater involvement of fathers in the lives of their children, especially on Father's Day, as amended.
Mr. Speaker, I ask unanimous consent that all Members may have 5 legislative days in which to revise and extend their remarks on H. Res. 318.
Mr. Speaker, I yield myself such time as I may consume.
Mr. Speaker, I rise in strong support of H. Res. 318, and I would like to congratulate Representative Sullivan on this resolution. The upcoming celebration of Father's Day is time to reflect on the role that fathers play in the development of our children and the stability of our families, and an ever-increasing amount of research supports what common sense has told us all along, that fathers are essential for children's development.
Unfortunately, far too many children today are growing up without the presence of their father, with 24 million children in our country, approximately one-third of all American children, living apart from their biological fathers. Even more alarming, 40 percent of those children, with absent fathers, have not even seen their fathers in the last year. Given what we know about the importance of fathers for children, this statistic is truly alarming.
In my previous profession, I saw firsthand the increase in fatherlessness and witnessed this devastating effect on the young men I worked with. I was excited to receive a call one day from one of my player's fathers who wanted to reestablish contact with his son after many years' absence.
I was really excited and went and found the player, told him his dad had called. I knew that he hadn't seen him for 15 or 20 years. So I told him about this call. I remember the player saying this: he said, you know he really didn't care about me when I was little, and now he only wants to see me because I am doing well in football. The player didn't even call his father back after 20 years. So fatherlessness has become very real to me because of those experiences.
Research performed by the National Fatherhood Initiative has indicated that children, both boys and girls with involved loving fathers, are more likely to do well in school, have healthy self-esteem and avoid high-risk behaviors. But just as the presence of a loving father has positive overwhelming effects on a child, the lack of a father carries extremely negative effects.
Children who live absent their fathers are two to three times more likely to use drugs, experience behavioral problems, be victims of abuse, and engage in criminal behavior.
A few years ago, a greeting card company offered free cards to inmates from a prison to send to mothers on Mother's Day. Nearly all the prisoners took the offer and sent cards to their mothers. So the greeting card company was somewhat encouraged by the success and they decided that they would then make the same offer when Father's Day came around. They offered free cards to send to fathers on Father's Day, and they had zero takers. There was no one in that prison who wanted to send a card to his father on Father's Day, which is a real indictment, I think, of the situation in regard to fatherlessness of those who end up in prison.
It is also important for fathers to foster close, caring relationships with their children. Additional research from the National Fatherhood Initiative suggests that adolescents are less likely to smoke, drink or use drugs if they have a close relationship with their father, and adolescents in intact families are also less likely to be negatively influenced by their peers or engage in delinquent behavior.
So what can be done to improve the state of fatherhood? Perhaps the simplest answer can be found in a sound marriage. It is the basic social contract between parents that provides the optimal environment for raising children.
Research by the Fatherhood Initiative says that the concept of marriage is well-supported in America. In fact, nearly 90 percent of survey respondents disagreed with the statement that marriage is old- fashioned and outmoded. Clearly, there is support for the idea of marriage among Americans, yet at the same time half of all first marriages in our country end in divorce. This is linked to the stability of our families, indicating that we must work harder to make sure that marriage and fatherhood is encourage and supported in our society.
I would just say, Mr. Speaker, in concluding my opening remarks, that from my perspective, working with young people for over 36 years, the greatest crisis, the greatest threat facing our country today is not problems with the economy, is not al Qaeda, but it is simply father absence. If we could undo that extreme difficulty with our society, we would solve probably 80, 90 percent of our social problems in our country.
So I strongly support H. Res. 318 and urge its passage.
Mr. Speaker, I reserve the balance of my time.
Mr. Speaker, I yield 4 minutes to the gentleman from Oklahoma (Mr. Sullivan), the author of this resolution.
Mr. Speaker, I yield 1 minute to the gentleman from Pennsylvania (Mr. Pitts).
Mr. Speaker, I yield 1 minute to the gentleman from New York (Mr. McNulty).
Mr. Speaker, I would like to thank Mr. Davis for his participation. It seems like we often are involved in these kinds of issues together.
I have no further requests for time, and I yield back the balance of my time.
Mr. Speaker, on that I demand the yeas and nays.