I thank my former chairman for yielding, and now ranking member of the Government Oversight Committee. I wanted to speak today because I have tremendous admiration for William Buckley, Jr. He lived…
I thank my former chairman for yielding, and now ranking member of the Government Oversight Committee.
I wanted to speak today because I have tremendous admiration for William Buckley, Jr. He lived in many places. He had a wonderful home in New York City, he had a wonderful home on the water in Stamford, Connecticut, in the Fourth Congressional District, and a family compound in Sharon, Connecticut, as well.
Bill Buckley was an absolute delight to interact with. On occasion, not often, I would be invited to have dinner at his home, and he would have people of great notoriety. I would participate in the dialog, but a lot of the time I felt it was best to listen more than talk. I loved the twinkle in Bill Buckley's eyes as he debated people, and me, on occasion.
There was nothing mean or angry ever in the way he spoke to people. He had strong views, but he clearly liked the interaction that took place. He loved debating ideas, he loved drawing you out. But I never once ever heard him be nasty about anyone. He was a conservative with strong views but he listened kindly to those with other views.
I would like to place in the Record, A Eulogy for My Father, St. Patrick's Cathedral, April 4, 2008, and that is by his only son, Christopher Buckley. I will just read a slight part of it. This was delivered on the occasion of the memorial mass for his dad at St. Patrick's Cathedral.
Christopher began by saying, ``We talked about this day, he and I, a few years ago. He said to me, `If I'm still famous, try to convince the cardinal to do the service at St. Patrick's. If I'm not, just tuck me away in Stamford.' '' Then Christopher went on to say, ``Well, Pup, I guess you're famous.''
Further on he said, ``Pope Benedict will be saying mass here in 2 weeks. I was told that the music at this mass for my father would in effect be the dress rehearsal for the Pope's. I think that would have pleased him, though doubtless he would have preferred it to be the other way around.''
It was a magnificent service. It was a service where great joy and admiration was expressed and with people from all political persuasions, from the most liberal, to the most conservative. We were saluting a man, the likes of which we may never see again, sadly.
With that, let me say thank goodness for William Buckley, for his magnificent family, and for the grace which embodied everything he did.
Eulogy for My Father
Delivered on the Occasion of the Memorial Mass for the Repose of the
Soul of William F. Buckley Jr. on April 4, 2008, at St. Patrick's
Cathedral
(By Christopher Buckley)
We talked about this day, he and I, a few years ago. He
said to me, ``If I'm still famous, try to convince the
Cardinal to do the service at St. Patrick's. If I'm not, just
tuck me away in Stamford.''
Well, Pup, I guess you're still famous.
I'd like to thank Cardinal Egan and Msgr. Ritchie of the
archdiocese for their celestial hospitality, and Fr. Rutter
for his typically gracious words. I'd also like to thank Dr.
Jennifer Pascual, musical director of St. Patrick's, as well
as the St. Patrick's Cathedral Choir, and organists Donald
Dumler and Rick Tripodi for such beautiful music.
Pope Benedict will be saying Mass here in two weeks. I was
told that the music at this Mass for my father would, in
effect, be the dress rehearsal for the Pope's. I think that
would have pleased him, though doubtless he'd have preferred
it to be the other way around.
I do know he'd have been pleased, amidst the many
obituaries and tributes, by the number of editorial cartoons
that depicted him at the Pearly Gates. One showed St. Peter
groaning, ``I'm going to need a bigger dictionary.'' If I
disposed of the cartoonist's skills, I might draw one showing
a weary St. Peter greeting the Fed Ex man, ``Let me guess--
another cover story on Mr. Buckley?''
My mother is no longer with us, so we can only speculate as
to how she might react to these depictions of her husband of
56 years arriving in Paradise so briskly. My sense is that
she would be vastly amused. On the day he retired from Firing
Line after a 33-year-long run, Nightline (no relation) did a
show to mark the occasion. At the end, Ted Koppel said,
``Bill, we have one minute left. Would you care to sum up
your 33-years in television?'' To which my father replied,
``No.''
Taking his cue, I won't attempt to sum him up in my few
minutes here. A great deal has been written and said about
him in the month since he died, at his desk, in his study in
Stamford. After I'd absorbed the news, I sat down to compose
an e-mail. My inner English major ineluctably asserted itself
and I found myself quoting (misquoting, slightly) a line from
Hamlet, He was a man, Horatio, take him for all in all, I
shall not look upon his like again.
One of my first memories of him was of driving up to
Sharon, Connecticut for Thanksgiving. It would have been
about 1957. He had on the seat between us an enormous reel-
to-reel tape recorder. For a conservative, my old man was
always on the cutting edge of the latest gadgetry--despite
the fact that at his death, he was almost certainly the only
human being left on the planet who still used Word Star.
It was a recording of MacBeth. My five-year-old brain
couldn't make much sense of it. I asked him finally, ``What's
eating the queen?'' He explained about the out-out-damned
spot business. I replied, ``Why doesn't she try Palmolive?''
So began my tutelage with the world's coolest mentor. It was
on those drives to Sharon that we had some of our best talks.
This afternoon, I'll make one last drive up there to bury
him,
alongside with his sisters in the little cemetery by the
brook. When we held the wake for him some days after he died,
I placed inside his casket a few items to see him across the
River Styx: his favorite rosary, the TV remote control--
private joke--a jar of peanut butter, and my mother's ashes.
I can hear her saying, ``Bill--what is that disgusting
substance leaking all over me?'' No pharaoh went off to the
afterlife better equipped than he does.
The last time I was with him in Sharon was last October. It
was a fundraiser for the local library, billed as ``A Bevy of
Buckleys''--my dad, Uncle Jim, Aunt Pitts, Aunt Carol, me--
reading from the aggregate Buckley oeuvre--a word I first
heard from his lips many years ago, along with other exotic,
multi-lingual bon mots: mutatis mutandis; pari passu; quod
licet Jove, non licet bovi.
An article had appeared in the local paper a few days
before, alerting the community to this gala event. As I
perused the clipping, my eyes alighted on the sentence: ``The
Buckleys are a well-known American family, William F. Buckley
being arguably the best known.''
I kept my amusement to myself, and handed Pup the clipping
and waited silently for the reaction I knew would come. Sure
enough, within seconds, he looked up with what I would
describe as only faintly bemused indignation and said,
``Ar-guably?''
He was--inarguably--a great man. This is, from a son's
perspective, a mixed blessing, because it means having to
share him with the wide world. It was often a very mixed
blessing when you were out sailing with him. Great men always
have too much canvas up. And great men set out from port in
conditions that keep lesser men--such as myself--safe and
snug on shore. One October day in 1997, I arrived from
Washington in Stamford for a long-planned overnight sail. As
the train pulled into the station, I looked out and saw
people hanging onto lampposts at 90-degree angles, trying not
to be blown away by the northeast gale that was raging.
Indeed, it resembled a scene from The Wizard of Oz. When the
train doors opened, I was blown back into the carriage by the
50-mile-an-hour wind. I managed to crawl out onto the
platform, practically on all fours, whereupon my father
greeted me with a chipper, ``We'll have a brisk sail.''
I looked up at him incredulously and said, ``We're going
out in this?'' Indeed we did go out in it. We always went out
in it. Some of my earliest memories are of my mother,
shrieking at him as the water broke over the cockpit and the
boat pitched furiously in boiling seas, ``Bill--Bill! Why are
you trying to kill us?''
But the cries of timorous souls never phased him. He had
been going out in it for years, ever since he published his
first book, God and Man At Yale. Nor did he need a sailboat
to roil the waters. His Royal typewriter--and later, Word
Star--would do.
How many words flowed from those keyboards. I went up to
Yale recently to inspect his archive of papers. They total
550 linear feet. To put it in perspective, the spire of St.
Patrick's rises 300 feet above us. By some scholarly
estimates, he may have written more letters than any other
American in history. Add to that prodigal output: 6,000
columns, 1,500 Firing Line episodes, countless articles, over
50 books. He was working on one the day he died.
Jose Marti famously said that a man must do three things in
life: write a book, plant a tree, have a son. I don't know
that my father ever planted a tree. Surely whole forests,
whole eco-systems, were put to the axe on his account. But he
did plant a lot of seeds and many of them, grown to fruition,
are here today. Quite a harvest, that.
It's not easy coming up with an epitaph for such a man. I
was tempted by something Mark Twain once said, ``Homer's
dead, Shakespeare's dead, and I myself am not feeling at all
well.''
Years ago, he gave an interview to Playboy Magazine. Asked
why he did this, he couldn't resist saying, ``In order to
communicate with my 16-year-old son.'' At the end of the
interview, he was asked what he would like for an epitaph and
he replied, `` `I know that my Redeemer liveth.' '' Only Pup
could manage to work the Book of Job into a Hugh Hefner
publication. I finally settled on one, and I'll say the words
over his grave at sunset today in Sharon, as we lay him to
rest. They're from a poem he knew well--Robert Louis
Stevenson's Requiem--each line of which, indeed, seemed to
have been written just for him:
Under the wide and starry sky
Dig the grave and let me lie.
Glad did I live, and gladly die.
And I lay me down with a will.
This be the verse you grave for me:
Here he lies where he longed to be.
Home is the sailor, home from sea,
And the hunter home from the hill.