Mr. Speaker, over most of the past decade, each time I boarded a plane to head to D.C., I would write a note to my kids, Sophie and Aven, to explain to them why I was leaving and what I would be working on while I was gone. My kids were…
Mr. Speaker, over most of the past decade, each time I boarded a plane to head to D.C., I would write a note to my kids, Sophie and Aven, to explain to them why I was leaving and what I would be working on while I was gone.
My kids were three and six when I started here, and when they were little, my letters were elementary: ``This week, I will be working for more jobs in our region.''
My letters always ended with: ``Be good. I love you.''
Later, as they became older, my notes to them became more complicated, covering all sorts of things, from Russia's invasion to Ukraine, to immigration reform, to the intricacies of the congressional appropriations process. Even as they became more complicated, a common thread in each of those letters was this: I tried to communicate to them that I was trying to work every day to make things better for their generation and for their country.
Mr. Speaker, today, as I prepared to give these final remarks on the House floor, I sent my kids this note, and with your permission, I will read it.
I wrote:
Sophie and Aven--After 20 years total in public service and
the last 12 years in Congress, I have had a lot of people ask
me what I have learned.
Honestly, I have learned a lot.
I have learned that my left knee handles the aisle seat way
better than the middle or the window.
I have learned where the best cups of coffee, the best
tacos, the best burgers, and the best bathrooms are in
Washington's Sixth Congressional District.
I have learned more lyrics to more songs driving around our
district than anyone could imagine and certainly more than my
staff cared to hear me sing.
But I have also learned some valuable lessons, and today,
kids, I want to share with you some of the things I have
learned.
I have learned the importance of knowing your why.
As you guys know, I grew up in the district that I
represent, in Port Angeles.
When I was in high school, it was right around the time the
timber industry took it on the chin, and a lot of my friends'
parents lost their jobs, and a lot of my neighbors lost their
jobs. It had a big impact on me.
So I went off to college, and my senior thesis was focused
on how to help timber towns in Washington State. When I went
to grad school, my doctoral dissertation focused on
challenges facing single-industry communities. I looked at
mining towns in the U.K. and timber towns in Washington,
trying to figure out what to do when the main industry that
is the reason for a community's existence declines.
While I was always interested in our democracy, I didn't
know I was going to run for office. I was working in economic
development, and, honestly, I just got grumpy. I found myself
saying: Our ability to grow jobs in this region is surely
impacted by what government does and doesn't do.
Finally, some of my friends said: Well, you seem like you
have a lot of good ideas, and you sure complain a lot. Why
don't you go do something about it?
The next thing I knew, I was serving in the State
legislature.
Then, about 12-\1/2\ years ago, my predecessor, Norm Dicks,
who has been and continues to be an extraordinary friend and
mentor to me, called me and said: In an hour, I am going to
announce that I am not running again, and you should figure
out whether this is something you want to do.
The chance to create more economic opportunity for more
people in more places was the main reason I came here.
That is my why.
I came to Congress because I wanted to grow jobs and help
the area where I grew up.
It has been the honor of my life getting to represent my
hometown and our entire region. Whether it has been helping
folks get access to broadband or securing funding for ports,
fighting for our community hospitals, delivering funds to
address flooding, securing investments to restore Puget
Sound, or helping ensure that the Federal Government lives up
to its trust and treaty obligations, I have been honored to
work for our region. I would like to hope that the work that
I have done has provided more opportunity for folks who
deserve it.
Part of that effort involved taking some of the findings of
my doctoral dissertation and some smart ideas from some other
folks and turning them into legislation called the RECOMPETE
Act, legislation to provide flexible, multiyear support to
communities that are struggling. I am really proud that we
got this bill included in the CHIPS and Science Act, and I am
proud that it has become the most popular program in the
history of the Economic Development Administration, getting
565 applications from 49 States.
Out of the 565 applications, there were 6 that got large-
scale implementation grants,
and one of the 6 was for the region where I grew up. How cool
is that?
What are the takeaways?
Well, first, apparently, I am really slow. It took me more
than 20 years to do something with my doctoral dissertation,
but, most importantly, I never forgot my why.
Sophie and Aven--Whatever you do in your life, I hope you
find your why. I hope you are able to find something that
gives you as much drive as helping my hometown gave me.
Mr. Speaker, I also wrote my kids the following:
Sophie and Aven--I have also learned about the importance
of being a steward. I want to encourage you to care about
your country, your community, and the organizations that you
are a part of.
Tearing things down is easy. Building things up is hard.
In a commencement speech delivered in 1968 at Cornell University, former Secretary John Gardner spoke about the importance of stewardship. He spoke of the importance of people being what he called loving critics of the institutions and communities in which they work, and he spoke of two concerns.
Sometimes, he said, institutions and communities suffer from what he called uncritical lovers, folks who went about their business smothering their institutions with love without thinking about how to improve them.
Functional organizations and successful communities want to get better.
Gardner also said that institutions and communities suffered from unloving critics, people who treat an institution like the pinata at the party.
I see that a lot in my job. The most popular thing a politician can do is bash Congress, and if it is done in a way that is focused on demolition rather than on improvement, that is a problem, too.
So why do I mention this? Well, John Gardner sounded that alarm 56 years ago, and the alarm is ringing louder now.
According to recent polling, faith in our institutions is at a historically low point. I am not just talking about Congress--which, according to recent polling, is less popular than head lice, colonoscopies, and the rock band Nickelback--but, according to recent polling, a majority of Americans no longer view institutions of higher education as forces for good.
Fewer and fewer Americans have faith in public schools. Less than one in five have faith in newspapers and in news media in general. Faith in business is at the lowest point it has been since Gallup began polling that question. Heck, even organized religion has taken a hit. You know you are in trouble when we are losing faith in faith.
What does it mean for us? It means all of us--we, all of us--need to be better stewards. Each of us needs to be a loving critic of our community and of the organizations and institutions about which we care.
For me, it has meant trying to make Congress better. That is why I became chair of the Select Committee on the Modernization of Congress, which was nicknamed the fix-Congress committee. We showed that Congress can do things better when folks checked their partisan agendas at the door and just focused on working together. The Democrats and Republicans on that committee were loving critics of Congress.
We did things differently, to sit not by party, not on a dais, but around a round table, sitting next to someone from a different party. We had one staff, not separate Republican and Democratic staffs. We broke bread together and planned the work of the committee together, and it helped.
Our committee, in the midst of Presidential elections, pandemics, insurrections, and other chaos, managed to pass 202 recommendations to make Congress function better for the American people. At this point, over half of them have been implemented. Another quarter are on their way toward implementation.
Now someone can look at our record and say: Well, hey, bang-up job, pal. Clearly, Congress is fixed.
Obviously, that is not the case, although I am reminded of a conversation I had right there on the House floor with the House Chaplain during the 15th or so round of votes for Speaker of the House. I saw her here on the House floor, and I said: Pray harder.
She put her hand on my elbow, and she said: Just imagine how bad things would be in this place if I wasn't praying so hard.
So that is sort of how I look at the work of the Select Committee on the Modernization of Congress. I think that, over time, you are going to see some positive change within this institution because of that work.
I feel lucky that I got to work with some loving critics of the institution, such as William Timmons and Tom Graves. I want to thank them for being collaborators, partners, and friends.
I also appreciate the efforts of Stephanie Bice and Joe Morelle, who want to see the efforts to improve Congress continue.
I thank Speaker Emerita Pelosi for her vision in creating the Select Committee on the Modernization of Congress and for her faith in me to serve as its chair. It has been such an honor to get to learn from her throughout my time in Congress.
I also got to work with amazing committee staff, such as Yuri Beckelman, who has an infectious enthusiasm for making the institution better; Derek Harley, who, over the last 4 years, has spent more time than anyone I know working to improve Congress; Allie Neill and Jake Olson, who built the committee from the ground up; and Marian Currinder, who brought more content knowledge on Congress than anyone.
It takes special people to try new things, and I applaud all of the committee staff for the courage and commitment to that cause.
We were also blessed to work with a cohort of nonprofits and think tanks and academics who have dedicated their time and energy to making government work better, and their work matters.
To state the obvious, there is a lot more work to do there. We are better than our current politics. I feel so lucky to have been partners with them, and I sure hope to continue to partner with them down the road.
Sophie and Aven, I have tried to be a loving critic of this institution. I hope you will find a way to play that role in our democracy as well as steward the places and organizations that you care about.
Mr. Speaker, I wrote my kids that I have learned that we are incredibly fortunate to live in one of the most special places on the planet. A lot of the work I have done has been focused on being stewards of those places, and I feel so grateful to have had amazing partners in that work. We are blessed to have the most extraordinary national park on Earth, with places like the Hoh Rain Forest and Hurricane Ridge. We are fortunate to have folks who work for the Park Service as stewards of those treasures.
We are fortunate to have the United States Navy in our community. Our community is stronger because of the patriots who serve this Nation and call our community home. They bring their service ethic, skills, community pride, and pride as Americans to our community. We must be stewards for them and make investments in our naval shipyards to ensure that they can continue to keep our servicemembers and country safe.
We are fortunate to be home to more military veterans than nearly any other place in our country, and, again, we are stronger for that. If someone serves this country, we should have their back. I am grateful for the folks at the VA and all the veterans service organizations who do that work.
We are fortunate to have communities with local leaders, county and municipal elected officials and staff, port districts, public utility districts, chambers of commerce, economic development councils, and many others. There are too many to name, but they have been my friends and partners, and together, we have navigated a pandemic, built affordable housing, supported local businesses, and worked to make our communities safer and more vibrant. We have worked to fix flooding in Grays Harbor and to fix traffic problems in Gorst. We have stood up a forest collaborative to try to manage our forests in a way that works better.
Mr. Speaker, these partners are stewards. They are my friends, and I am grateful for them.
I wrote: Sophie and Aven, we have also worked to recover Puget Sound. We are fortunate to have this natural treasure that has supported livelihoods and lives for generations. We are fortunate to have a group of stewards that are fighting to help it.
Paramount among those stewards are our Tribal partners. We are fortunate to have 12 Native American Tribes who call Washington's Sixth Congressional District home. They are extraordinary stewards who think seven generations into the future.
I have worked with our Tribal partners on efforts to combat the climate crisis and to deal with its impacts as they try to move to higher ground, to strengthen Tribal healthcare and housing options, and on so many initiatives. The Tribal leaders in our region have been my friends and partners. They have taught me so much, and personally, I feel fortunate to consider them my friends.
Sophie and Aven, one of the lessons I have learned is that the boat moves best when everyone has their oars in the water rowing in the same direction. You get further with partners, and I am so grateful to every constituent who has been a partner in the work of our office.
Sophie and Aven, there are other things I have learned. I have learned that we have work to do to protect this amazing democratic Republic. When I say ``we,'' I mean all of us.
President Kennedy said: ``In a democracy, every citizen, regardless of his interest in politics, `holds office'; every one of us is in a position of responsibility; and, in the final analysis, the kind of government we get depends upon how we fulfill those responsibilities.''
To me, that is a reminder that we are not observers in this democracy. We are participants in it.
How is that going? An NBC News poll found that 70 percent of Americans agreed with this statement: America is so divided it is now incapable of solving big problems, and the problem is getting worse.
There was a battleground poll last year that found that, on a scale of 0 to 100, with 0 being no conflict and 100 being civil war, Americans put us at a 70. The median was a 70. That is the highest on record. That means, on average, Americans believe we are more than two- thirds of the way to civil war.
I visited a YMCA in our district thinking they wanted to talk to me about gymnasiums struggling from the pandemic. Instead, they wanted to talk to me about conflicts breaking out at the Y due to politics.
I don't think we just need to accept that. None of us should throw up our hands and say, well, I guess that is just life in 2024. We just won't solve any big problems and just hate each other and worry about getting punched out on the elliptical at the gym. We need to figure out how to engage folks we disagree with.
To that end, I introduced a bill called the Building Civic Bridges Act to support local efforts to bridge divides, to train AmeriCorps members in the skills related to bridge building, and to support colleges and universities that are doing work in this space. I hope Congress will eventually pass it.
We are even trying to do some of the bridge building in Congress. I am a co-chair of a group called the Bipartisan Working Group, which is about a dozen Democrats and a dozen Republicans who meet regularly over breakfast to just try to find some common ground.
I don't want to mislead you all into thinking that we are all sitting around the table and holding hands and singing ``Kumbaya'' or closing our eyes and doing trust falls into each other's arms. We stopped doing that after we dropped a guy. But I do find myself thinking that the work we are doing in the Bipartisan Working Group, the challenging work of trying to solve problems together, is something we need to see more of, not just in Congress, but in our country, too.
I am grateful to my colleagues who are part of that group, particularly Scott Peters and my friends Andy Barr, Jack Bergman, and
John Rutherford, who have been great partners from the Republican Conference.
There are also civil society organizations, academics, and individuals trying to bring folks together to foster understanding, dialogue, and collaboration across our diverse communities to build bridges. I am really grateful to them. I am hopeful that their work will help us live up to our national motto, ``E pluribus unum,'' ``Out of many, one.''
Just yesterday, former President Obama said: ``If you want to create lasting change, you have to find ways to practice addition rather than subtraction.''
Sophie and Aven, I hope you will do the hard work of trying to bridge divides. We all have choices about whether we exacerbate polarization or bring people together. We do better when we listen to people, when we choose to go into conversations understanding that we may be wrong and others may be right, when we respect people even when we disagree with them, when we show empathy when we are trying to bridge those divides.
Sophie and Aven, we are going to rely on your generation to help us heal.
Sophie and Aven, I have learned the value of having an amazing team. You have been there when I have been asked by people, ``What are you proudest of during your time in Congress?'' You have always heard me give the exact same response, ``I am proudest of my team.''
A lot of the success that I have shared with you wouldn't have been possible without the tremendous team I have had. From the beginning, I had an office led by Jonathan Smith in D.C. and by Meadow Johnson in the district. They, and the rest of the team, got us off to a great start. They had vision and hustle that set the tone for us.
Over time, Joe Dacca became my district director. Whether we were visiting the naval shipyard, rooting for the Huskies, or listening to 80's tunes circumnavigating the Olympic Peninsula, Joe was an amazing partner.
Rachel Kelly was a top-notch chief while I chaired the New Dems and the modernization committee. She was a tremendous leader for our team, especially during the tumult of the pandemic.
It was such a pleasure for me to watch the growth of Andrea Roper, who started as an intern on my campaign, became scheduler in my district office, and went on to become our district director and deputy chief of staff. She is a terrific professional, and I am proud of her.
Heather Painter and our policy team have been tenacious about getting pucks into the net for our constituents. Heather is so talented. In fact, I won the lottery with talented leg. directors.
In addition to Heather, we had Katie Allen, who was a wizard on environmental issues and knew so much about salmon recovery and managing healthy forests.
We had Aaron Wasserman, who laid the foundation for our work with the Puget Sound Naval Shipyard.
My first LD, Kevin Warnke, always engaged with a strategic mind and with kindness.
I am grateful for every person who worked on our policy team over the years.
I have had such excellent team members who helped us communicate with our constituents: Stephen, Tim, Jason, Martha, and Ian, who led the way.
We had amazing schedulers in D.C. and in the district who made sure we always made time for our constituents, including Jolie and Tory, who are here today. I am grateful to each of them.
Cheri Williams has dedicated her life to helping our constituents and has had a talented group of caseworkers, including our longtime team member, Chantell Munoz. They have done so much good for so many people that I could spend my entire time telling stories of the wins they have gotten for the people we represent.
Sophie and Aven, I have had folks in the district, people you kids have met at events over the years, including, currently, Courtney, Haley, and Stephanie, and folks like Nicholas, Rob, Katy, MaryJane, Judith, and others who served our constituents for a long time and who have made sure we were available, accessible, and accountable to our constituents.
My current chief of staff, Andrew Wright, is everything Americans should want in their public servants: ethical, kind, visionary, someone who hustles, someone who looks for wins for the American people. In every role he has been in on our team, he has been just awesome. I am grateful for him.
I can't name everyone, but every person who worked on our team is worthy
of gratitude. Over the years, I have had absolutely outstanding folks who have worked in my district and D.C. offices, and I am so grateful for that and the fact that, without exception, they have focused on doing the right thing for our constituents.
I also thank the Irwin family for sharing their daughter Kate with us. Though Kate passed away a few years ago, I think about her often and have told colleagues and staffers her wise words during one of our last times together. She said, ``This isn't have-to-do stuff; this is get-to-do stuff.'' She was an amazing young woman who made a very big difference in far too short a time.
I thank each and every team member who served the people of Washington's Sixth Congressional District during my time in office. Together, we made a real difference.
Sophie and Aven, whatever you do in your life, I hope you have a team as good as I have had--people who work hard, who do the right thing, and who care.
Sophie and Aven, it is good to have a crew. You have heard more about the New Democrat Coalition than most Americans and certainly than most teenagers. I was honored to serve as leader in the New Dems throughout my tenure in Congress, including serving as chair.
The New Dems are the best kept secret in politics, a group of pragmatic, problem-solving Democrats who chase impact more than headlines. Simply put, they are focused on getting things done for the American people. Politics could use more of that.
I thank Ron Kind and Jim Himes for being mentors to me in that coalition as well as the New Dem staff, including former staff members like J.D. Grom and current leaders like Anne Sokolov and Leighton Huch, among others. I also thank Helen Milby, who has been the fairy godmother of the New Dems and an amazing friend to me.
Beyond that, I assure you that you can even find friends in the most unusual places, even in Congress. When I got to Congress, I was told, if you want a friend in this place, get a dog. I feel very lucky that my experience hasn't been like that at all.
Sophie and Aven, I am proud that you can sing the Ami Bera song and you know that he is a delight to travel with, that you speak of Scott Peters like he is a superhero, and in many ways, he is. I am proud that you can do the Dan Kildee handshake and that you know that he is an amazing roommate who has been with me on the toughest days here. I am proud that you know what to do for Adam Schiff when you see the Dave Grohl autobiography and that you watched ``The Big Lebowski'' to honor him and his courageous leadership.
I am proud that you are wowed by friends like Abigail and Mikie, who are former CIA agents and helicopter pilots and who have such bright futures; that you know Jim Himes hosts a great dinner party and that when I met him, I told you that I would at least have one friend in Congress; that you know that Lori Trahan can get me to laugh on even the roughest of days; that you know Pete Aguilar and I get into trouble when we sit next to each other at events, and that institution is stronger because Pete is one of its greatest leaders with a bright disposition, a willingness to have tough conversations on both sides of the aisle, and a passion for service.
Sophie and Aven, I am sort of tickled that when I read this note to you on the House floor, it will formally enter into the Congressional Record the names ``Back Row Hecklers,'' ``Rusty Butterknives,'' and ``The Indespicables'' into the Congressional Record.
But whatever we call them, they are people I have broken bread with, talked about the world's problems with, been through a whole lot personally with, and I want each of them to know how grateful I am for them, for their friendship. Though I am moving on from Congress, I am confident I am not moving on from my friendships with them.
I appreciate my plane buddies, particularly Suzan DelBene, Adam Smith, Dan Newhouse, and Marilyn Strickland, who, in addition to being great leaders and partners, often made the time go faster on what really is a long flight. They have been amazing partners in standing up for our State.
I would be remiss if I didn't acknowledge my former roommate and former colleague, Denny Heck, who is a great Lieutenant Governor and a dear friend who often shared his warm almonds with me on the plane.
I am thankful to the class of 2012 in Congress. What a dynamic group of people. Included among them are Hakeem Jeffries and Katherine Clark, both of whom are dear friends and stewards of this institution.
Outside of Congress, I have had an amazing support system of friends and family. I am grateful, Sophie and Aven, to your Uncles Ryan and Jason and to your grandparents. They have instilled in me an ethic of service and have supported me throughout. My mom and dad taught me the value of education and the importance of thinking before you spell, and they taught me one word--family.
Tim, Ryan, and Ray are the definition of friends, being there when I most needed a hand and spending a very long day with me.
Turi Widsteen has been my longest friend, and her family has been important to me for decades.
Andy Weinstein and Jon Goldman, my college roommates, with whom I have shared music and laughter and ups and downs, have been there from the beginning.
Sue and Chad have been rays of sunshine while working in a place that occasionally needs more sunshine.
I enjoy thinking about leadership, asking all of the questions, and visiting Abe at the Lincoln Memorial with Lauren.
I want to voice special gratitude to J.J. Balaban, who has been the most extraordinary adviser and friend a guy could ask for. I would not have served in Congress had it not been for his advice and help. Since I get to put this into the Congressional Record, I want to say this: I love you, J.
I have learned how lucky I am to have such good friends.
Finally, Sophie and Aven, I have learned how lucky I am to be your dad. I am grateful to you both. You were 3 and 6 when I was elected to this job. You are now 15 and 18. Over the years, you have come with me to fairs and festivals, parades and party events. You have met two Presidents and even talked about SpongeBob SquarePants with President Obama in the Oval Office. I hope some of those experiences are amazing memories for you, just as they are for me.
Having said that, as nourishing as this job has been, in some respects I know it has come with profound costs for our family. Every theatrical performance and musical recital I missed, every family dinner I wasn't there for all had an impact on our family.
I thank your mom for supporting me personally and professionally. I thank her for supporting our family during some tough times, particularly when I was in Washington, D.C. Though our marriage didn't last, my gratitude to her does.
Sophie and Aven, I am conscious that I didn't always deliver in the way I wanted, and I hope you will forgive me for that. I hope you know that I was really trying my best to make the world better for you and for your generation.
I want you to know how proud of you I am. You are informed. You are inquisitive. You can walk into a room of adults and make conversation about the events of the world. You have learned to use your voices in powerful ways. You can study politics or be involved in JROTC, and people see you as leaders.
You have become terrific citizens in a way that makes me proud, that would make your oma proud.
I remember sitting right over there in January of 2013 when I was sworn into this body. Aven didn't last long, but Sophie sat by my side when I got sworn in. When the ceremony was over, Sophie, you looked at me and said: Why was that supposed to be special?
I hope, after 12 years of service in Congress, you see that this was special, that the capacity to work to try to solve problems for our region is, indeed, a special honor. I hope, despite personal setbacks and frustrations with our politics, you come away with hope.
As I wrap up two decades in public service, I am so grateful for the people of the Sixth Congressional District for
giving me the honor of representing them. As I conclude this role on their behalf, I am hopeful.
Rabbi Jonathan Sacks once wrote:
Optimism and hope are not the same thing. Optimism is the
belief that things are going to get better. Hope is the
belief that if we work hard enough, together, we can make
things better.
He also wrote:
It needs no courage to be an optimist, but it does take a
great deal of courage to hope.
Sophie and Aven, the task ahead for each of us, myself included, though soon from outside this building, is to be a part of that, to work together to make things better, to have hope.
Sophie and Aven, have hope. Be good. I love you.
Mr. Speaker, I yield to the gentleman from Michigan, Dan Kildee, my friend.
I am Honored to have Served Mid-Michigan in Congress