Mr. Speaker, I rise to recognize and remember Barbara Jeanne Hoover who passed away October 14, of this year. Unwaveringly altruistic, Barbara learned early the importance of family, dedication, and community. Barbara was born on September…
Mr. Speaker, I rise to recognize and remember Barbara Jeanne Hoover who passed away October 14, of this year. Unwaveringly altruistic, Barbara learned early the importance of family, dedication, and community.
Barbara was born on September 4, 1953 in Jamaica, Queens, New York. After graduating from St. John's College, she was employed in Human Resources for Citibank, in New York City.
It was at Citibank where Barbara met the man of her dreams and future husband, James Hoover. They were quickly married and it wasn't long before Barbara gave birth to their first son, Bradley. Barbara chose to leave Citibank, eager to build a loving home for her family. She would later give birth to two more boys, Courtney and Logan.
It is without question that Barbara's number one passion day in and day out was her three sons. Her unconditional love, devotion, patience, attentiveness, and personal sacrifice were unwavering.
Her ability to see beauty in the world fueled her passion for the environment and gardening. She was a member of the North Country Garden Club and her tenure was defined by impeccable leadership. Over the course of twenty years, she served as President, Chair of the Communications Committee, and most recently as Co-Chair of the Projects Committee. She pioneered a new era in the Club's communications, bringing a fresh, engaging design to the quarterly Gazette and even creating a new website.
Her leadership never went unnoticed and was often celebrated. She was given the Mentor Award for her many contributions to the NCGC for her bravery and ability to handle roadblocks with grace and dignity. Never boastful, Barbara was eager to share her expertise and wisdom to NCGC newcomers. Always happy to hold meetings in her house, her three English Springer Spaniels, her other passion, were always at her side.
Barbara's commitment to the environment did not stop there. From 2007 to 2011, she worked on the staff of the North Shore Land Alliance, a non-profit devoted to the conservation of land on Long Island. She tirelessly planned and executed fundraisers, advocacy campaigns, meetings with elected officials, and countless other events to protect the place she called home.
Barbara felt strongly about having a first-rate community hospital and tirelessly worked to provide her support for the Glen Cove Hospital, where she was a founding member of the Advisory Council and served as its Chairman since 2011. Her family witnessed the appreciation for her by the numerous interactions with the hospital staff during her frequent visits as a patient. She, in turn, was always thankful to anyone who helped her, no matter how small the gesture.
Always wanting to ease the burden for others and take on more responsibility, Barbara deliberately and thoughtfully gave her family a short eulogy a few days before her death:
``I did not live an extraordinary life, but I lived the
life I chose. I chose the man I adored to marry, and I loved
the man I chose. And we raised the three most beautiful and
joyous boys. I was born into a beautiful family with two
sisters and a brother. I was blessed with the best life
raising my joyous boys, and they kept me laughing all the
way. I had meaningful work, through which I developed some of
my best friends.
I enjoyed being on the staff of the Land Alliance, and I
loved my service to the Glen Cove Hospital and the North
Country Garden Club.
I lived my life well and I lived in peace. My many friends
have been caring and generous to me; and I will miss them all
greatly.''
Barbara's devotion to her family and our community will be sorely missed. While she leaves behind large shoes to fill, she also leaves behind a life to aspire to.