Mr. Speaker, I rise today to include in the Record the personal stories of families from across the country that have been impacted by the opioid and heroin epidemic. In the U.S. we lose 129 lives per day to opioid and heroin overdose. In…
Mr. Speaker, I rise today to include in the Record the personal stories of families from across the country that have been impacted by the opioid and heroin epidemic. In the U.S. we lose 129 lives per day to opioid and heroin overdose. In my home state of New Hampshire I have learned so many heartbreaking stories of great people and families who have suffered from the effects of substance use disorder.
Earlier this year, my colleagues and I were joined by many of these courageous families who came to Washington to share their stories with Members of Congress and push for action that will prevent overdoses and save lives. Since then, we passed both the Comprehensive Addiction and Recovery Act and the 21st Century Cures Act to provide much needed funding and critical policy changes to fight this epidemic.
The advocacy of these families truly is so important to leading change in Washington and I am proud to preserve their stories.
JC Conners--Milwaukee, Wisconsin
JC Conners came to his mother over five years ago worrying
and wanting to get off of drugs. Unfortunately--by that
time--he had little control over his addiction; his brain was
shutting down and we didn't understand. On August 13, 2016 JC
succumbed to the disease of addiction; he overdosed and died.
He was 38 years old!
How does a hard-working, healthy man become severely
addicted to drugs? It shocked us all. Some time ago, JC was
introduced to oxycodone, a simple pill, that a friend told
him would help with stress and make him
``feel good''--adding that the best part was that it wasn't
easily detected and didn't get you in trouble like alcohol.
Unaware, JC took the pill, not realizing the downfall that
was about to happen.
JC wasn't your stereotypical addicted individual. He was
high-functioning, worked hard at his job, and spent time with
his family. He fooled them all by managing his everyday life
so well. But slowly over time he started to deteriorate. JC
eventually shared with his mother what he came to realize
later: ``This so called `medicine' shouldn't be on the
market. It's misused. I'm really sick. Something's wrong. My
minds off.''
After realizing this JC tried hard to stop but couldn't,
with each attempted he was further consumed by his addiction.
His family tried seeing doctors, therapists, etc., but they
all seemed detached. JC was only a number in a long line of
individuals also struggling with an addiction. We tried
outpatient therapy but that didn't work either.
At another program, his family learned how this particular
drug stops your brain from producing the ``right'' chemicals
to function and if this continues part of your mind goes
missing. We also learned that it can take years for the brain
to recover and start producing these much needed chemicals
again for health brain functioning. Meanwhile, the individual
just wants to feel ``okay'' and as hard as they try the only
way to function ``okay'' is going back on the drug.
JC overdosed Thanksgiving 2015 and survived. He overdosed
for a second time this past June, again, he survived. He then
spent five days in the hospital with complications related to
this overdose. The day JC was released, neither the doctors
nor the staff learned or inquired about his past history with
addiction, they only sent him home with the suggestion he see
a therapist. So, his family trusted the professionals. Two
months later, JC was gone. He had fallen through the cracks
and we didn't understand fully the depth of his struggles
until it was too late.
My daughter asked me to write this so JC's story would be
heard and to relate this message to everyone: we need to be
aware and come to terms with the realization of what these
drugs do to the human brain, yet these drugs are out there
and way too easy to come by. Why is this happening? We need
to sympathize, understand and help those struggling with
addiction, not stigmatize them. JC was told by many
professionals that, ``he had to want help and had to want to
help himself.'' The outside help he did try failed him, so he
thought he was better off overcoming his struggles on his
own. We, his family didn't understand the severity of his
addiction, so we let him try. We came to realize this was a
terrible mistake! Professionals need to make it VERY clear to
both the individual and their families that overcoming
addiction can't be easily done on their own. Additionally,
they need to better help us, the families, understand that
our loved ones might not be thinking rationally due to the
addiction compromising healthy brain functioning.
Yes, JC chose to use, but had little knowledge of the
effects these drugs have on the brain because they aren't
being properly explained to the public. His last years were a
hard existence and he paid the ultimate price, but my son was
so much more than his addiction. He was a kind, sincere,
caring person, who would do anything for anyone. A kid at
heart, JC believed there was good in everyone and truly
wanted to turn his life around. He was a great man who was
loved by so many, who just made a terrible mistake, but so
did the medical system.
Anthony Fiore--Warrington, Pennsylvania
Growing up, Anthony tried to fit in with the ``good kids,''
but was shunned on many occasions. He then began to change to
fit into a group that would accept him. This group of friends
started smoking pot in 8th grade, and transitioned to
Oxycontin by 12th grade. Anthony always wanted to have
friends and was very loyal to them.
Anthony was very intelligent--he never had to study but
always had above a 3.5 GPA. He enjoyed making people laugh,
and would joked around a lot. He got accepted into Penn
State's Main Campus in State College, PA, based on his SAT
scores and his GPA. In his sophomore year he joined a
fraternity.
During Christmas break in 2009, Anthony told his family he
was addicted to Oxycontin. He said he could detox at home,
and would take some time off before returning to college.
This was the first time his parents heard anything about
this.
In January 2010, Anthony returned to school and started
using again. When he came home at the end of the semester,
his family sent him to a relative's house for the summer--far
away from anything that we thought could trigger his
addition. The entire summer they kept in touch with Anthony;
he was passing drug tests, and everything seemed to be going
well. Anthony wanted to go back and finish college, so his
family let him return that fall.
It was not until early 2011, that Anthony's family found
out he was using again. They then pulled him out of school on
medical leave, but this time he went to a 28 day inpatient
treatment center. When he returned, everything seemed fine.
Anthony had a friend pick him up to go to Narcotics Anonymous
meetings and he would show his family the various chips he
received for being clean for a certain amount of time. It
appeared that he was clean and again, his family allowed him
to return to Penn State.
At some point, Anthony switched to heroin because it was
significantly cheaper. Two of his best friends, one day, came
to Anthony's parents house and told them Anthony was
injecting heroin. Because of their courage, his family had
more time with Anthony. Anthony was then referred to an
inpatient rehab facility in Pennsylvania. At the time his
family didn't have insurance, so they only kept Anthony for
about five days; just long enough to detox. While there,
Anthony was diagnosed with depression but his family were
never informed of this diagnosis. That summer Anthony stayed
home, worked, and seemed to be doing fine. His family refused
to let him go back to Penn State's main campus; so Anthony
enrolled at the Abington campus, which was about 30 minutes
from our home.
What his family later came to find out was that Anthony
made a copy of his dad's car key and was sneaking out in the
middle of the night to get heroin. At some point he added
cocaine to the mix. On May 23, 2013, Anthony overdosed in his
parent's basement. One of the boys he was with came and got
his mother, and she called 911. Anthony was given Naloxone,
which saved his life.
In the emergency room the nurses tried to give him another
Naloxone shot, but Anthony wouldn't allow it--he wanted to
enjoy what was left of his high. This shows how powerful of a
hold heroin has on its victims; less than an hour earlier
Anthony had almost died but he still wanted the drug. Because
his heroin usage depressed his breathing so much, fluid built
up in his lungs, and Anthony developed pneumonia.
Anthony then tried Vivitrol, another relapse prevention
medication; this was given as a shot every 28 days by a
doctor. When Anthony started receiving his shots, it worked.
Then one day, Anthony told his family he wasn't going to get
the shot anymore. They did everything we could to convince
him and in the end they told Anthony he could no longer live
them if he wasn't going to get the shot.
In the summer of 2013, Anthony and some other boys robbed a
drug dealer, thinking that a drug dealer wouldn't go to the
police. A warrant was issued. Months later, Anthony was
stopped for possession of heroin, and when police found out
about the warrant for the robbery, he was sent to prison. His
family refused to bail him out, despite Anthony's constant
pleas. They felt, at the time, prison was where he needed to
be; at least we knew he would be safe and clean.
After about a month in prison, a private criminal defense
attorney was hired; who was able to arrange Anthony's release
on his own recognizance, on the condition that he immediately
enter an inpatient rehab facility. By this time, we had
insurance but the program only guaranteed 21 days. His family
begged them to keep him longer, but they said that's all our
insurance would cover.
When Anthony was released, he truly wanted to stay clean.
He started cooking dinner for the family and hanging out with
his younger brother, which he never did before. ``It was
great to see my two boys together,'' writes Anthony's mother.
``They went to movies, to the gym, and did various things
brothers do together. I finally had my Anthony back and we
felt like he had won. He looked good, acted fine, and was not
argumentative and agitated as he was when using. Anthony was
doing well and saving to move out on his own.''
While Anthony was living with his family, they told him
none of the boys he previously hung around with could come
over again and he should find new friends. This lasted about
four or five months, and one day he told us one of his old
friends was coming over. Anthony said he was the only other
person he knew who was also clean; but in reality, this
friend was not clean and was still using. This friend was
with Anthony the entire night and morning when he died. He
said he didn't have any idea what happened, however, he did
find time to steal Anthony's debit/credit card from his body,
and proceed to spend $2,500.00.
``I found my son's body,'' writes his mother. ``What an
awful thing for a mother to go through. We are broken.
Anthony is not defined by his addiction. He was a loving and
caring son, brother, grandson, nephew, and cousin. He was
very intelligent, kind, thoughtful, and funny. He was a hard-
working young man with a bright future.''
Megan Rose Kelley--Appleton, Wisconsin
Megan Rose Kelly, forever 22, was the youngest of four
siblings. From a young age, Megan was helpful and always nice
to people--she was a joy to be around. Growing up, Megan was
involved in soccer and Girl Scouts. She was well-liked by
everyone who met her.
Megan, who was a kind and beautiful girl, had a lot of
insecurities. In the eighth grade, to better fit in with her
peers, Megan started hanging around with people who were
drinking to have fun. As things progressively got out of
hand, Megan's mother turned to a social worker for help.
Megan was put in counseling and an outpatient drug treatment.
At 14, Megan met a guy who was seven months younger and had
been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Through this
destructive relationship, Megan turned to shoplifting and
began experimenting with more drugs. By sophomore year of
high school, Megan started skipping school, which resulted in
truancy charges.
Throughout high school, Megan got into enough trouble where
she had to serve time in jail and was court ordered to be on
probation for three years. After two years, her probation
officer decided to take her off of probation. Things then
started to settle down for Megan, until the summer of 2013,
when her mother was told that Megan was addicted to
prescription painkillers. She confronted Megan, but denied
it. Later that summer, Megan and her boyfriend of four years
got into huge argument and broke up. Soon afterwards, she
started seeing another guy.
Megan's mother spoke with Megan multiple times about her
addiction, and each time she blew her off. On November 2,
2013, her mother spent the entire day with Megan and her new
boyfriend cleaning her house. Around 4:30 PM Megan and her
mother both left; Megan went to work and her mother drove
home.
Around 10:10 PM that night, Megan's mother received a phone
call from her sister telling her that Megan's boyfriend was
dead. It was found out that Megan's boyfriend had been
snorting Percocet throughout the day, and died as a result.
Shortly afterwards, two of his friends showed Megan how to
inject heroin. By March 2014, Megan came to her mother and
asked her for help, sending Megan to a rapid detox facility
in Detroit. Megan's mother was reluctant to spend the $7,800,
but Megan begged and said it was a matter of life or death.
After Megan completed detox, she got so sick she ended up
having to go to the hospital and was hooked up to an IV. She
was diagnosed with pancreatitis, caused by heroin use. This
was when her mother first found out Megan was using heroin,
and the nightmare had only just begun.
Three days later, after being discharged from the hospital,
Megan was arrested and charged with four felony counts
involving heroin. The next day at court, Megan's mother paid
$10,000 to bail Megan out.
Over the next five months, Megan's mother thought she was
doing great; Megan was passing all of her drug tests. One
night, Megan was stopped by the police because her car
windows were too darkly tinted, and was rearrested when they
found syringes on her.
Megan spent four months in jail before she was sentenced.
During her sentencing, the judge said that heroin was a
powerful drug, only to deny Megan a nine-month court-ordered
inpatient treatment program for a drug that kills. Four
months into her sentence, Megan relapsed, overdosed, and
died. ``My life forever changed that day,'' writes Megan's
mother. ``Her sentence became a death penalty.''
Kirstyn King--Richmond, Virginia
Kirstyn King was born in the early afternoon on December 8,
1990. She was a perfect baby and everything her family had
hoped for in an infant daughter. The first time they saw her
tiny, sweet face, they were overwhelmed with love, hope and
emotions they had never experienced before. Her mother saw
her own future and past in Kirstyn's eyes and cried with joy,
she knew she'd do everything to protect her child and new
family.
As the years went by, Kirstyn's mother worked hard and
elevated their financial status to a six-figure income. A lot
happens over the passage of time and in that particular
period there were mostly beautiful memories, but,
unfortunately, there were also agonizing ones that still
haunt her today. Despite her every attempt to shield her
family from life's worst, Kirstyn was harmed and sexually
exploited when she was a young teenager. This started a slow
avalanche as she rebelled and struggled. Her mother tried to
help her but she felt so powerless. Kirstyn's despair was
evident and her mothers attempts to make it all go away were
futile.
``Around this time, I injured my back falling down the
stairs,'' writes Kirstyn's mother. ``The physical pain was
unlike anything I had ever experienced. This led to a
prescription pill addiction that bottomed out in a horrible
way. After layoff and foreclosure, I began writing my own
prescriptions to support my escalating habit. I ended up in
jail. I had never been in trouble in my life and suddenly I
was a felon, effectively homeless and jobless, after being a
homeowner twice over with a promising career.''
``My children never used drugs more than the occasional
sampling. Kirstyn suffered from anxiety and once I went to
jail, the mom that had always saved the day was powerless to
help her. Her fiance transferred with a government contractor
to England and her brother, nearly 18, moved with his father
to California. She felt alone and began heavily and
carelessly self-medicating.''
Kirstyn was shy, gentle and gorgeous. She adored animals
and wanted to save all of them. She would find the least
attractive, the most broken of the bunch, and that would be
the cat or dog she wanted to take home. From tadpoles to
earthworms, there wasn't a creature that she was afraid of
and didn't love. She had an infectious belly laugh and always
saw the best in others. She complemented other girls and gave
the most she could of her wonderful soul. She was the life of
the party and a risk-taker with a childlike spirit. Her light
wasn't reciprocated. In fact, it was abused. On October 16,
2011, Kirstyn lost her life to her brief addiction. I was in
jail and could do nothing. All I can tell you is that it is a
grief I'll never be able to fully comprehend or articulate.
``As a recovered addict and grieving mother of a 20 year
old who lost her promising life to addiction, I know we must
do more,'' writes Kirstyn's mother. ``Those in recovery who
are able to speak must be heard and represented in this fight
to find solutions for this crippling American epidemic. We
can't continue to villainize and hunt for the dealer or
``that bad kid'' that influenced our child. We need to dig
deep, open our eyes and ask, why does America hurt? We are a
nation in crisis.''
Matt Klosowski--Bear, Delaware
Have you ever met a guy whose smile could light up a room?
Who made you feel like you had found a long lost friend? The
kind of guy who would give you the shirt off his back? That
guy who brings every stray dog home and makes it a member of
the family? That was Matt Klosowski. He had that happy-go-
lucky personality that drew people in and made them fall in
love. Unfortunately for Matt, he never loved himself enough.
He experimented with marijuana in high school and after
graduating to pills, ended up in his first 30 days inpatient
treatment facility.
Matt went on the become an excellent mechanic. He moved to
the beach, bought a home and opened his own business. His
adult life appeared successful and drug-free. Matt's family
took a deep breath and started to relax, only to discover
soon after that Matt was hiding his addiction. At first it
was just casual use--a Saturday night party or coming down
from a busy week of work. But he was slipping back into the
deadly mindset that made him believe he was in control.
The beginning of the end began when Matt suffered a back
injury--he had been lifting an engine when he felt a pop. The
next day he could barely walk. Matt called his mother to let
her know that the doctor gave him Percocet. Matt struggled
with an addiction to Percocet for seven years. During that
time he lost everything he had worked so hard to gain. He
tried to continue working on cars while he was abusing pills,
but it was obvious to his steady customers that something was
terribly wrong and they took their business elsewhere. His
business closed six months after his injury. After missing
too many mortgage payments his beach house was repossessed by
the bank. Everything he loved now gone.
During those seven years Matt was in and out of treatment.
Due to his insurance, however, Matt was never permitted to
stay for the length of time he needed to learn how to handle
life without pills. He would come home clean and his family
would look into his clear eyes and thank God that Matt was
back. He was such a joy to be around. He didn't want to be
tortured by cravings. Our life would start to feel normal
again but his family's joy was short-lived when, within a
matter of weeks, Matt returned to his world of numbness and
the cycle began again.
Matt's last attempt to get clean took place at a treatment
center close to home. As his mother watched Matt struggle
with demons that had plagued him for most of his adult life,
she was proud and hopeful. Matt was coming back. Each time
she visited she was greeted by his clear eyes and beautiful
smile. She remembers sitting together looking out over the
water. Matt was headed to a recovery home in Florida. She was
unsure about his decision but remembered every book she read
always talked about how different people, places and things
are the best choice to support new sobriety. When Matt left
for Florida on June 2, 2014, he wrapped her up in a big bear
hug and told her he was so happy to have the monkey off his
back. Little did she know that monkey would find him in
Florida.
Matt was starting a new life and Once again he was living
by the sea--his happy place. He found a job, his self esteem
returned, and his mother believe that this was his ``ah-ha''
moment, that finally he was in a good place.
For reasons her heart will never understand, Matt relapsed
and died. He lost his battle on January 3rd, 2015.