I thank the gentleman from Pennsylvania (Mr. Thompson) for organizing this Special Order hour in order to discuss the life of Joseph Vincent Paterno. As has been said, there have been many eulogies said about Joe Paterno, and he was an…
I thank the gentleman from Pennsylvania (Mr. Thompson) for organizing this Special Order hour in order to discuss the life of Joseph Vincent Paterno. As has been said, there have been many eulogies said about Joe Paterno, and he was an extraordinary man by anyone's measure.
As has been mentioned, he came to us via Brooklyn and Brown University. I believe he studied English literature, and he always took great inspiration from the books he read and the classics. In fact, he turned down a life in professional football in order to stay at Penn State and stay in this university, academic environment. He actually liked meeting with the faculty and enjoyed discussing English literature and other weighty matters. This man was quite complex. He was more than just football, although certainly that was such an important part of his life, and a big part of his life.
We should also note that some of us would always watch Joe Paterno over the years. My mom is a Penn State alumna and I'm a Penn State alumnus. Our family goes back many, many decades, so we have some acquaintance with Joe Paterno. Many people fondly remember him--the guy with the thick Coke-bottle lenses and the khaki pants--flood pants-- with athletic shoes. That's how they'd see him out on the field, getting a little agitated from time to time with the officials, but he was much more complex than all that.
A few things: first, if there is a theme about Joe Paterno's life, it was that he was about setting clear standards, as one of his children had told me. He has five wonderful children and a wonderful devoted wife, Sue Paterno. He often said that Joe said things like this:
Take care of the little things, and the big things take care of themselves. You either get better or you get worse. You never stay the same. Most importantly, he said, Make an impact. That was the wisdom that his father passed on to him and that Joe passed on to his children--make an impact.
So when you think about it, Joe Paterno's life was about making an impact, and football was just a means to that greater end for him. He and his wife, Sue, would see a need, and they would meet it one small thing at a time until the big things, a legacy of philanthropy and caring, took care of themselves. They gave a lot of their own time as well as their own money.
His son said something to me, and I'm just going to read this. One of his children sent this to me. He said that, over the years, Joe attended hundreds of dinners and functions, raising billions of dollars for Penn State, for the Special Olympics--I know his wife, Sue, was particularly devoted to the Special Olympics--for the Catholic Church, and for education at all levels.
He said, I once asked him why he did it, why he smiled when he signed his 30th autograph while getting a paper, and he said with that twinkle in his eye, The moment they don't care about Penn State football, we can't do the things that matter.
He understood that, as a symbol and as a person, he had to let people own a piece of him to get them to buy in to the larger vision. They did, and the results were spectacular. From the Paterno Library to scholarships to what's called THON, the dance marathon where they raise so much money for children with cancer, he said, My dad helped them all. He made an impact.
That's really what it was about. It has often been stated, too, that Joe Paterno really wasn't supposed to go to Penn State at all. He was supposed to go from Brown University and become an attorney, as his father had expected. Basically, he told his dad at one point, No, I'm never going to be a lawyer. He was enjoying Penn State. He enjoyed the football program. He said his father took it all right, but closed with a mandate that drove him his whole life.
His dad said, It's not enough for you to be just a good football coach. You need to make an impact. So that was imparted from his father on to Joe.
There are a lot of people out there who played football for him. Some of these were young men who had a lot of talent in many cases, and some of them were maybe a little bit pampered, as some athletes are at the high school level who are quite good; and Joe could be a pretty strict disciplinarian for a lot of them. In fact, one of his former players, Kenny Jackson, who attended Penn State when I did, still calls him ``teacher'' first. Hundreds of players called him a surrogate father. The lessons they learned translated across the whole spectrum of their lives, creating a living legacy, and that will make an impact decades past his passing.
There are so many people who spoke of him. Since his death and just prior to his death, I spoke to some of his former players and friends who knew him well, and they often talk about the impact he made on their lives and how much they cared for him all these decades after playing for him. In fact, there was one story, too, that I want to share.
I remember back in the 1980s there was a player named Bob White. He became an All-American and was on the national championship team. I think he even played in the NFL for a while. I just remember how the Paternos took him under their wing. Apparently, he was a fairly marginal student. He had some trouble reading and, in fact, wasn't very good at it. So Sue Paterno would basically give him books, and he would have to read the books and then give her a book report. I mean, this is the coach's wife taking an interest in one player who was academically not very strong at the time. Today, he is quite successful and does quite well.
I just wanted to share that story. It's one of those stories you really don't hear about or about the anonymous contributions that have been made by him that have been discovered recently because people have spilled the beans, so to speak. He didn't want people to know that he was helping them. He did all of these things without any recognition.
He was an extraordinary man, and he will be deeply missed. All I can say is that he was a great Pennsylvanian even if he did spend the first few years of his life in Brooklyn. He was very proud of that by the way. I just wanted to say that I'll always have very fond memories of him. The university is a better place because of what he has done throughout his life, and I think we will always remember him.
I thank the gentleman.
And as we wind down this Special Order this hour, talking about Joe Paterno, we should also probably note one other thing, too.
Of course Joe Paterno was about success with honor, he was about making an impact, but he was also about family. And also, I just want to say, too, that many players over the years, their children would come to the school. In some cases, three generations have played with him. It's a remarkable story.
I think of a guy from my hometown, Mike Guman. Many of my colleagues from Alabama will remember Mike Guman for the famous goal-line stand, Penn State-Alabama Sugar Bowl, 1979. I wish the end result had been different. But nevertheless, Mike Guman was a running back. I had so many kind, wonderful things to say about him. And his son, too, Andy Guman, played at Penn State. That was the kind of program that I think Joe wanted. It was very family-oriented.
I also wanted to mention, too, that one of the eulogies about Joe that is probably worth sharing--I believe it was given by his son Jay. He often talked about his sense of humor and that of his wife. Joe and Sue were utterly devoted to each other, very independent-minded people, but very much dependent upon one another. I am going to read an excerpt from that eulogy:
Humor was a large part of my parents' marriage. My mom and
dad, speaking together, was always entertaining. My mom would
jump up with a smart comment when he was talking, and you'd
get a glimpse of how the two of them interacted. Neither one
of them took themselves too seriously.
And he says:
One of my favorite lines that they had was about how they
stayed married so long. They had a deal--whoever leaves the
marriage first had to take the children. So neither one of
them ever left.
And that was sort of the sense of humor they had, but they were so utterly devoted to each other, to their five children, and to their many grandchildren. That's something we don't speak much about Joe Paterno.
He didn't have a whole lot of hobbies either. He was devoted to family and his football program and his university. That's what he was about. So it really speaks volumes about him. He will be deeply missed.
At this time, I yield to the gentleman from Altoona, Pennsylvania (Mr. Shuster).
I have to apologize for making that error. I knew you were from Everett, not from Altoona. But Blair County, the whole of Bedford, it's a wonderful area. We love it.
I wanted to say one other thing my friend, Mr. Shuster, just reminded me of: how Coach Paterno, Joe Paterno, recognized that most of his players were not going to become pros, and he celebrated the accomplishments of his players off the field. In fact, I remember one fellow who went to school with me, a guy named Stu McMunn, Stewart McMunn, I think he was captain of special teams. They won the national title the year after I graduated. He talked with pride about that young man. He's not going to be a pro, but he's all of this spirit, all this fight in him, he's a smart kid, and all that. And he became a dentist. He was very proud of the fact that was one of his players. That was kind of the way he was. He wanted to see his players succeed. He wasn't so concerned about the next 5 years after graduation, but the next 15, you know, 20, 30, 50 years, to see what they're doing with their lives. So I think that's something they shouldn't lose sight of.
I did read from a eulogy given at the celebration of Joe's life by one of his children, and I submit it for the Record.
Again, I just want to conclude by saying that Joe Vincent Paterno, a great Pennsylvanian, a great American, a strong leader, a mentor to so many, a mentor even to many people who never met him, but he had an impact on their lives. So, Joe Paterno, you did in fact make an impact.
Mom and Dad. I don't know much about Greek Mythology, so
forgive me if I botch this reference. But in the past few
months I've been reminded of some kind of Greek myth.
Apparently, we were once one body with a male head and a
female head and we were all happy. Some angry god, as
punishment for some slight--sliced all of the happy two
headed beings apart--forever dooming us to run around the
world looking for our other half. Anyone who knows my parents
also knows that they were among the lucky people who were
able to find their other half: their soul mate, their best
friend.
We've stated over these past days just how blessed and
lucky my Dad was--and he knew it. One of the stories you
won't hear from a former Letterman is the time that Coach
Paterno became smitten with his girlfriend and didn't ask her
out. No, sneaky Joe waited until Sue realized that this
player was not for her and went in for the kill. After a
courtship that involved reading Albert Camus, walking on the
beach, and pretending that he had money, they married and
soon started their family.
Over the years when my Dad would talk about retirement or
getting older, he would remind me, ``You know, your mother is
a young woman.'' It almost became a joke. Whenever she was
late coming back from a meeting or something, I'd say ``Well
you know, your mother is a young woman.'' He'd always
chuckle. But he did worry about her and always wanted to make
sure that she would be OK once he was gone.
They were absolutely devoted to their family: my Dad was
comfortable letting my Mother handle the more traditional
roles of diaper changing, but he loved to bounce us around on
his knee, try to teach us table manners, have discussion-
filled family dinners, and take us for walks; walks that
would continue into our adulthood and would be one of his
primary ways of sharing his wisdom and insights with us. I
shared some of dose walks in late November and I am forever
grateful for having that opportunity.
Their relationship was unique in some ways. Two fiercely
independent and strong people, yet two people utterly devoted
and dependent on each other. Best friends who challenged each
other to be better, who supported each other yet reminded the
other when they might be mistaken, who knew each other so
well that they knew what the other was thinking before they
even said it. This was a relationship that started with
respect and friendship and remained strong with faith, love,
and commitment to each other. They made each other better.
Humor was a large part of my parents marriage. My Mom and
Dad speaking together was always entertaining--my Mom would
jump in with a smart comment when he was talking, and you'd
get a glimpse of how the two of them interacted. Neither one
of them took themselves too seriously. One of my favorite
lines they had was about how they stayed married so long.
They had a deal--whoever leaves the marriage first had to
take the children, so neither one of them ever left.
But that was really not the reason. They were devoted to
each other without fail. The compassion and love they showed
for each other during these past few months was
indescribable. Weaker marriages may have splintered at the
incredible amount of pain they endured. Yet theirs only grew
stronger.
My Mom's only concern these past few months was for my Dad,
and my Dad's was only for my Mom. just a week ago, I was
talking to him and I didn't want him to get discouraged. I
said to him--Hey, you've got to keep fighting. For Mom. He
barely had his voice then but he nodded and whispered back
``fight, for Mom.'' And he was. And he did until the end when
we assured him that we would take care of Mom.
Like my mother, we are all heartbroken at the days and
years ahead when we continue our lives without being able to
pop in on him for a quick visit, ask him for advice about our
children. Or, in my case just to see him and be reminded of
what a great father I've had. We have faith in God and his
plan for all of us, and I can only be grateful that I was a
witness to a beautiful marriage and that I had the best
father and role model I could possibly ask for. I love you
and will miss you Dad. And don't worry--we will take care of
Mom. I do know that my mother is a young woman.