I thank my good friend for yielding, Madam Speaker, and I especially want to thank Mr. Wu, the gentleman from Oregon, for offering this very important resolution, and I'm very proud to be one of the cosponsors. Madam Speaker, when a friend…
I thank my good friend for yielding, Madam Speaker, and I especially want to thank Mr. Wu, the gentleman from Oregon, for offering this very important resolution, and I'm very proud to be one of the cosponsors.
Madam Speaker, when a friend is struck by a tragedy, perhaps the death of a family member, we all know what to do. We call them up, we visit with them, we reach out to them. And that's what they need at that moment, to know that they are not alone, that they are accompanied by friends.
I think that is with nations as well. When tragedy strikes a nation, other nations have to reach out and remind them that they are part of a great human family and that other nations grieve with them. So it is right that our country should make this gesture after the tragedy that struck the great Chinese people.
Madam Speaker, lest anyone doubt the importance of this gesture, let me remind them of the outpouring of support that came from every corner of the globe after the attack on the World Trade Center in 2001. That meant so much to us.
Madam Speaker, many of us in this House number Chinese human rights activists among our friends, and among the list of people we admire most are people like Harry Wu, Joseph Kung, Wei Jingsheng, Bob Fu, and so many others come to mind. Over the past 10 days, I have been reminded of them as I have seen their mixture of practical earnestness and great generosity in the Chinese people's response to this tragedy, the outpouring of help from everywhere throughout China. The Chinese people continually amaze me for their willingness to stand by the unfortunate and the oppressed, and that sentiment is very strong among the people.
So, Madam Speaker, let us ask God to comfort all of those who have lost family members and friends in this terrible earthquake. I hope we can remember particularly the parents. Several days ago, I read an article in the Los Angeles Times, which I will enter into the Record, which reminds us, as
the headline says, ``One-Child Policy Adds to the Grief of China Quake.'' This is in the L.A. Times.
In Chinese culture, parents shower an extraordinary love on their children, investing their time and hope in them. The Chinese Government has cruelly and forcibly prevented most mothers and fathers from having more than one child, making brothers and sisters literally illegal. Now these parents have lost that one child. So we need to keep them in our prayers as well.
China's 1-Child Policy Causes Extra Pain
(By Christopher Bodeen)
After their daughter was born, Bi Kaiwei and his wife,
Meilin, decided to adhere to China's one-child policy and its
slogan, ``Have fewer kids, live better lives.''
For them and other couples who lost an only child in this
week's massive earthquake, the tragedy has been doubly cruel.
Robbed of their sole progeny and a hope for the future, they
find it even harder to restart their shattered lives, haunted
by added guilt, regret and gnawing loss.
``She died before becoming even a young adult,'' said Bi,
an intense, wiry chemical plant worker, standing beside the
grave of 13-year-old Yuexing--one of dozens sprinkled amid
fields of ripened spring wheat and newly planted rice. ``She
never really knew what life was like.''
Yuexing, a bright sixth-grader, was in school when Monday's
quake struck, bringing the Fuxin No. 2 Primary School
crashing down, killing her and 200 other students. Teachers
had locked all but one of the school's doors during break
time, parents said, leaving only a single door to escape
through.
Many among the more than 22,000 people killed across
central China were students in school. Nearly 6,900
classrooms collapsed, government officials said Friday, in an
admission that highlighted a chronically underfunded
education system especially in small towns and compounded the
anger of many Chinese over the quake.
In Wufu, a farming village two hours north of the Sichuan
provincial capital of Chengdu, most of the dead students were
a couple's only child--born under a policy launched in the
late 1970s to limit many families to one offspring. The
policy was meant to rein in China's exploding population and
ensure better education and health care.
The ``one-child policy'' has been contentious inside China
as well as out. The government says it has prevented an
additional 400 million births. But critics say it has also
led to forced abortions, sterilizations and a dangerously
imbalanced sex ratio as local authorities pursue sometimes
severe birth quotas set by Beijing and families abort girls
out of a traditional preference for male heirs. The policy is
law but there are exceptions.
Farther down the lane from where Yuexing is buried, 10 more
graves were laid out, some accompanied by favorite items--
textbooks for English and music, a pencil box, a Chinese
chess set. At one, grandmother threw herself to the dirt and
wailed as her husband lit a handful of ``spirit paper''
believed to comfort the dead in the afterlife.
Another bereaved parent, Sang Jun, stood where his
daughter, Rui, is buried, a simple mound of dirt beside his
quake-shattered farmhouse. The house is surrounded by burned
bushes--a traditional disinfectant. ``The house is gone and
the child is dead,'' said Sang, who wore a T-shirt and
plastic sandals. His parents, both in their 70s, looked on
with tears in their eyes.
Resistance by ordinary Chinese has forced Beijing to relax
the policies, allowing many rural families to have a second
child if the first was a girl. But in Wufu, the family
planning committee seems to have prevailed on most families
to stop at one child. Slogans daubed on boundary walls and
houses all along the rutted country road leading to Wufu call
on families to ``stabilize family planning and create a
brighter future.''
Standing in the rubble of the school holding his daughter's
ID and a posed shot taken at a local salon, Bi--pronounced
``Bee''--said starting a new family, either by having another
child or adoption, is simply imponderable.
``I'm 37 years old and my child was 13. If we were to do it
again, I'd be 50 when this stage comes along,'' Bi said.
Parents who lose children in disasters often feel intense
guilt for what they see as a failure to protect them, said
psychology professor Shi Zhanbiao. Parents, he said, may also
recall their past relationships with their children with
regret, thinking they were too stern, did not show them
sufficient love or did not interact with them enough.
``They'll think that if they just hadn't sent their
children to school that day, they would have been saved,''
said Shi, a researcher with the Chinese Academy of Science in
Beijing.
The loss is intensified for those with no other offspring
to lavish with care and affection, Shi said. And in China,
other, more practical concerns may also come into play
because children are generally expected to care for their
aging parents.
``They'll be worried about the future, because for the
later part of their lives, they'll have no one to depend
on,'' Shi said.
Bi said Yuexing was polite and smart. She had won a coveted
place at the county's best high school on the recommendation
of a teacher. She was a top student who got better after the
family moved closer to school to reduce her commuting time,
said Bi, who completed high school but failed the national
university entrance exam.
In her pictures, Yuexing, whose name combined the Chinese
characters for moon and star, is smiling and demure. The
studio shot shows her wearing a bright yellow sweater and
looking playfully over her shoulder.
Parents in Wufu said they plan to bring a formal complaint
over what they say was corruption and malfeasance in
construction of the school. They say officials moved the
students from a group of one-story classrooms--all of which
survived the quake--into a modern-looking, but unsafe
building.
``We have nothing else, no other wish but to win justice
for our children,'' said Sang's wife, Zhao Jing. ``We put all
our hopes on these kids, and this is the return we get.''