Mr. Speaker, I rise today to honor the late Dr. Russell King Heltsley of Hopkinsville, KY, for his contributions to his community, church and family. Dr. Heltsley passed away on December 13, 2004. Dr. Heltsley was a founder of the…
Mr. Speaker, I rise today to honor the late Dr. Russell King Heltsley of Hopkinsville, KY, for his contributions to his community, church and family. Dr. Heltsley passed away on December 13, 2004. Dr. Heltsley was a founder of the Hopkinsville, Kentucky Crime Stoppers, a member of the Lions Club and served on the board of directors for the Christian County Health Department. Dr. Heltsley was born on January 26, 1933. He was the son of the late King and Nola Withers Heltsley.
Dr. Heltsley served Hopkinsville as an optometrist for more than 40 years. He successfully owned and operated Heltsley Eye Care. In addition, Dr. Heltsley served his country in the United States Army as a First Lieutenant.
Dr. Russell Heltsley was a loving husband, father and grandfather. He was known for his dedication to his family.
I appreciate this opportunity to add his eulogy to the Congressional Record of the 109th Congress.
For Every Remembrance of Russell Philippians 4: 8-9; Philippians 1:3-5
December 16, 2004.
Fredrick Buechner, preacher and writer, wrote a book back
in 1984 entitled, A Room Called Remember. In Chapter 1, last
page, he makes an insightful statement. ``Remember him who
himself remembers us as he promised to remember the thief who
died beside him. To have faith is to remember and wait, and
to wait in hope is to have what we hope for already begin to
come true in us through our hoping.''
We are coming up on the 4th Sunday in Advent, 2004. It is
the season for remembering and hoping. It is a time of
remembering and waiting. It is a season of hope.
In the Epistle lessons from Philippians just read, the
missionary apostle says to his fellow Christians: ``I thank
my God in all my remembrance of you all, making my prayer
with joy, thankful for your partnership in the gospel . . .''
As members of the community of faith, each of us has our
own remembrances of Dr. Russell Heltsley.
Helen, you will remember the time you had Russell over to
your parents' home when you were dating. Thinking you had
prepared the delicious meal, seeing only your mother in the
kitchen upon his arrival, gave him a lot of concern. Later,
he admitted to you, ``It bothered me a lot.''
You will remember Russell coming home from the hospital
following your surgery, and eating the food you cooked before
entering the hospital, and hearing him tell me he was cooking
for you. I thought that sounded strange and you confirmed
later that all Russell was doing was warming up the food you
had cooked.
John and Russ, you will always remember your dad telling
you boys, ``Always do what's right, whether or not it is
popular.'' May his tribe increase. Russ and John, you will
long remember how proud he was of his family. The entire
family will remember his greatest disappointment in life was
not living to see his grandchildren grow up. You who are
members of the Lions Club will remember Helen coming to help
clean up because her husband couldn't do his part by helping
with the cooking.
Members of the Kentucky Optometry Association will remember
Russell, who held every position in the Association, as the
one who always watched the ``purse strings''. Why am I not
surprised?
All of Russell's friends will remember, for whatever
reason, he seldom ate out. Conservative? Yes!
I will remember Russell as a devoted member of First United
Methodist Church where I served twice as one of his pastors.
He was so predictable, even in his seating patterns.
Confirmed in 1947 by Dr. A. C. Johnson, he remained faithful
to his confirmation vows for the rest of his life.
Grandchildren, you will remember him as a controlling
grandparent who loved you very much. Russell had a good sense
of humor. After fitting me with my first pair of glasses in
the late 1970's, he reminded me that First Methodist folk
would now think they have ``an old preacher''. We will
remember his love for the farm and his dogged support of the
Kentucky Wildcats.
In these verses from Philippians 1 and 4, Paul, the
Missionary Apostle, is speaking to the Philippian
congregation. In the first passage, he says to his fellow
Christians: ``I thank my God in all y remembrance of you all,
making my prayer with joy, thankful for your sharing in the
gospel . . .'' Memory is a gracious gift from God Almighty.
We don't know when our memory will be taken from us and we
will be poor indeed. I well remember those early days of my
ministry at Hopkinsville First Church, and his family members
are part of that memory bank.
Today, we can say Russell has ``fought a good fight, has
finished his course, and has kept the faith.'' In Philippians
4: 8-9, Paul admonishes his friends in the church to a life
of piety. These six qualities of a committed life were the
qualities of Russell's life:
Whatever is true: Little did I know in 1977, when I became
Russell's pastor, I would be entertaining an angel unawares.
He taught that young minister, through his dedicated life to
Christ, how to act conscientiously, by the standards of truth
based on Holy Writ. Russell's convictions were based on what
he believed the truth to be. The truth was never negotiable.
He lived the lesson of truth! Yes, he did!
Whatever is honorable: Russell was truly a gentleman. A
Christian gentleman. An honorable gentleman. The
Interpreter's Bible reminds us that the Greek word literally
translated, reads: ``worthy of reverence''. Very fitting,
huh? His code of ethics was based on the Ten Commandments and
the Beatitudes. He didn't have a copy of either posted on his
front lawn. Didn't need to!
Whatever is just: Russell lived out the doctrine of
justice. I his daily life, and in all his social contacts, he
was a fair and just gentleman. He always played by the rules
of fairness, compassion and justice.
Whatever is pure: A good translation of these words is
this: ``Purify yourself of all mean spirits.'' Russell didn't
have a mean bone in his body. No he didn't! Stubborn, but not
mean! You know something? He never, not one time, told me
``Howard, I have purified myself of all mean spirits.'' He
just quietly went about the business of living a good life.
Whatever is lovely: Again, the Interpreter's Bible says the
original meaning was, ``Whatever is worthy of love.''
(Agape). Russell had a love relationship with all of us,
which was directly related to his love for our Savior Jesus
Christ. Now, separated by almost 30 years from the time I
first met Russell, that memory is just as vivid as ever. He
loved the Lord. He loved his brothers and sisters in Christ.
He loved his family!
Whatever is gracious: The King James Version translates the
statement this way: ``Whatever thing are of good report.'' I
like that. Don't you? Russell blessed me with his positive
and loving spirit. He was truly gracious, always of a good
report. That's Russell. Always spoken well of. Always held in
honor. The time I have left in this world, I sincerely want
to put these qualities to work in my life. Things I have
observed in Russell.
Following Russell's death, ``Rock-a-Bye Baby'' was being
played on the hospital intercom in celebration of the birth
of a baby. Russell would have liked that.