Mr. Speaker, recently, I sat down with a number of activists in Minnesota to talk about how LGBTQ folks, and especially trans people, are fighting for basic economic rights in a world that belittles, excludes, and dehumanizes them. The…
Mr. Speaker, recently, I sat down with a number of activists in Minnesota to talk about how LGBTQ folks, and especially trans people, are fighting for basic economic rights in a world that belittles, excludes, and dehumanizes them.
The transgender community is more visible than ever. Leaders like Laverne Cox, Caitlyn Jenner, and Janet Mock have become icons for the future of the LGBTQ movement. And in my hometown of Minneapolis, my dear friend Andrea Jenkins just received the democratic endorsement for City Council. She will be the first out trans person to hold office in Minnesota.
But this increased visibility hasn't improved the lives of all transgender people.
Compared to other states, Minnesota's transgender community is a lot safer and healthier. But that's not saying much. Nationwide, violence against trans people--and trans women in particular--is at an all-time high. Even in deeply progressive Minneapolis, my constituent CeCe McDonald was attacked outside a bar and imprisoned in a men's prison for 19 months for defending herself.
This sort of violence has far-reaching repercussions--high unemployment, difficulty accessing lifesaving healthcare, housing instability, and educational barriers. And we need to stop thinking of these injustices as separate from our economic lives.
To get a better understanding about how trans folks are living in the 21st century, I attended Minnesota's LGBTQ Lobby Day in April and hosted a town hall forum. I'll tell you--it's not easy. It takes a lot of courage to hold space for your truth. My friend Kye kicked off the testimony with a story about how important simply accepting people's identities are:
For many young trans people, growing up and going through elementary school, junior high, high school, and even college can be extremely difficult. And these folks don't always have the support system they need. Many talked about the deep opposition they faced from their families.
But it doesn't end there. There's difficulty finding work too. And even when trans people do find work, they can be subjected to cruel behavior from customers and even their own colleagues.
Now most American get their health insurance through their employers. But there are no protections to ensure that trans people can have the medically necessary care covered. This extends to our service members too. But there are also issues of racism and people being excluded because of their disabilities.
Listening to these very real struggles, I get upset thinking about how much time we have to spend convincing others to treat trans people as equals. It's clear we still have a lot of work to do, including in places that are seen as more tolerant to the LGBTQ community. I don't always know the right words, and I don't always get everything right when talking about this issue. And that's okay--I'm not trans. I do not have that experience. What's important is that I listen, that I hear and accept what my trans friends and colleagues are telling me. And that I do the work they ask me to do. That is how you build a movement of generosity and inclusion.
Thanks to OutFront Minnesota and the Minnesota Transgender Health Coalition for their help coordinating this town hall. But more importantly, thank you to those who shared their stories.
The following are excerpts from various LGBTQ activists I recently invited to a town hall forum:
Kye Allums: I was a sophomore in High School. I was unaware
of all things transgender and had no words to describe who I
was. Constantly fighting with my mom to prove I liked who I
liked, and that I would rather wear basketball shorts instead
of a dress. I was invisible; never validated or affirmed. My
mom let it be known that she was the one who defined me. I
was her daughter; I was her girl. Until one day I went with
her to meet a friend. We walked up to his office and he asked
my mom, ``Is this your son? He's a lot taller than I
remember.'' In my mind I was like, ``Yes!'' Before my mom
could say anything, I quickly replied, ``Yup that's me. I'm
her son.'' That moment, I was seen; I was seen by somebody,
and that somebody was Congressman Keith Ellison.
Aaron Dotta: I am a co-president of the GSA at St. Paul
Academy, which is a private school in St Paul. Something I
want to point out is, because our parents have resources to
send us to a private school, we are able to be educated in a
community that supports us, and we are able to be GSA
presidents and we are able to push for things such as gender
neutral bathrooms, which we now have in our school. What we
wanted to say is, this privilege of being able to push for
equality and have our identities be recognized, should not be
limited to private schools. Students at all schools,
including public schools, should be able have their own GSAs
and their identities recognized by their administration,
teachers and peers. Also as gender queer youth, we do face a
lot of hardship when it comes to choosing colleges, when it
comes to trying to finding summer jobs. We have to think
about what names we put on our applications, and resumes.
Looking at schools where we will hopefully be able to spend
four years and get a college degree, we have to carefully
think about what places in the country and what schools will
be friendly to our identities, so that we can focus on
getting an education without having to worry about our indent
threatening our safety and our mental health.
Leo Bukovsan: Most of my college decision making was based
on where I wouldn't get kicked out of school. As a female to
male transgender person, figuring out where I could be
housed, where I could be safe, basically, and that really was
tough, making those decisions. Because I'm in a privileged
situation where I can choose where I go to college pretty
well, based on all those kinds of things, I still have to
make sure that I'm going to be safe.
Zaylore Stout: I live in St Louis Park. I'm a board member
for RECLAIM!, which provides mental health services to
transgender and gender non-conforming youth. Locally, I'm a
member of the Allies of St Louis Park, which is an advocacy
group that started right after the election, in regards to
working towards progressive issues. Today I'm
here representing as well the St Louis Park GSA group. The
focus here is a student-led initiative to try to get the St
Louis Park school board to pass a gender inclusion policy.
Now the school board has been working on this. They came up
with a draft policy that's been enhanced since October of
last year, but they stalled. They stalled because of the
Gavin Grimm case in front of the Supreme Court. They also
stalled because of the Virginia-Minnesota case, as well. Part
of the issue was that they're currently in the midst of
looking for a new super intendant, but students need
protection. There's current no policy on the books in regards
to whether the transgender and gender non-conforming students
can use whatever restroom facilities it is they need. There
is no protection for them in regards to faculty members or
staff outing them to other students, to staff members or to
the parents. There are great model policies that are out
there, but the schools locally need to be able to pass these
policies on their own. It's my understanding that the
Minnesota Department of Education, as well the district
attorney has advised the school boards to hold off, in
regards to passing these policies because of the Virginia-
Minnesota case. But the plaintiffs have pulled back in
regards to that action, so there's not holding the local
school boards in regards to passing these types of
initiatives.
Jannifer Halpaus: My child is transgender. He's a
sophomore. He came out 2 years ago, so it's been a learning
experience. And in this experience, I have encountered
multiple phone calls from the school district because my
child is trans. Because he wants to use a certain bathroom,
because he wants to use a certain locker room and he won't
use the one they tell him to. On a state level, leadership
should pass gender inclusion policies or gender affirming
policies for all the schools in Minnesota, so we can end the
problems we are having. My child is being pulled out of
classes. He's is being sat down with principals, and district
employees, such as Title IX coordinators, upper level
employees, the superintendent. As a child, I did not know my
principals; I did not know my superintendents, personally. I
think my child should have that experience if he chooses. He
should be able to attend schools as a boy, and be one of the
guys. My child has recently been hospitalized three separate
times in a psych ward. Since things were brought to the
school board's attention, he successfully joined the boy's
swim team. The staff supported him. With three swim meets
left in the season, the school board contacted the principal,
who contacted me to say, ``Your son cannot change in that
locker room anymore.'' Three hours later they rescinded that,
but then instead of being allowed to take phy-ed like his
peers, he was told, ``We will give you a phy-ed credit for
having participated in the swim team, in lieu of you not
being in these locker rooms.'' My child is female to male
transgender, and many times when groups speak, they are not
speaking about my child. They are speaking about male to
female transgender. My child has problems with self-harm,
suicide ideation, high level of anxiety, and addiction. And I
can't believe that none of these has been part of why.
Dave Edwards: I am a board member at Transforming Families
Minnesota it's a peer group and community organization that
supports families with gender diverse youth. I appreciate you
being here today and focusing on future outcomes for trans
people, because that's where my daughter will be not that
long from now. I love the focus on the future; I think that
always has to include our youth's experiences in public
schools. We can't expect our landlords to rent to a trans
person when they watch their high school principal tell a
trans student where they can and can't use the restroom. We
can't expect managers make hiring decisions equitable if they
have watched their teachers minimize or diminish the
discrimination that their trans classmates faced. I'm glad we
brought up the gender inclusion policy; I worked with
Minnesota Department of Education create the Model Policy. It
has been completed and sitting since October and needs to
come out and be available to schools before the 2017-2018
school year.
Danny Roman: A lot of the times people don't realize it but
home life isn't very good either, along with school. It's
kind of hard for me, I suppose, because I don't get all the
support, but I get the support from friends and stuff and the
school does supports me.
Dasia Timmerman: Growing up is really hard in this state. I
came from the Montevideo, Fairmount, and Morris area, finally
the Twin Cities, Bloomington, and Eden Prairie. I didn't get
to come out. I tried in 1996; I couldn't find services and I
was with a really belittling family, and I eventually
disowned my dad because of all his hate. He would get red in
the face, and looked like he was going to get violent.
Kaylee Jakubowski: It took me three years to come out to
myself because it was terrifying. Once I finally did, soon
after coming out to my parents, they told me (their exact
words): not in this house. So, I was not allowed to come
home. I got abandoned from all the financial stability that
they offered. And I was kind of set out to figure it out
myself there on out. I was going to university at Winona
State at that time, and being very financial responsible, as
I thought I was, I took out just enough money so that I can
survive from beginning of fall semester to end of spring
semester. What I didn't foresee was losing the financial
stability for the summer. I had no other option but to take
out a credit card in order to feed myself. I maxed out the
credit card, fifteen hundred dollars throughout the summer,
to survive. I took out even more loans to go back to school.
Funny thing about signing up for student loans with your
parents as co-signers is that once you have to pay them back,
they assume that you're still under your parents' budget. So
when they're making $80,000 a year, I have to pay my loans as
if I'm making $80,000 a year. When in reality, after taxes,
I'm making 18 to 19 thousand dollars a year. That is very
difficult. Turns out to be six to eight hundred dollars a
month, depending on whether or not I want to skip one.
Getting through the day, day to day, is an incredible
challenge.
Hayes McRoy: One of my groups I go to, a LGBTQ group, is
losing some of its funding. It is a free group, but they
supply snacks and activities. One time, there's a trans girl
there who doesn't have any clothes because her family doesn't
support her. And we went out, we got her some clothes so she
can feel more comfortable. And a great resource like that is
currently losing funding, and along with that there also
homeless shelter for LGBT youth, which will take up 20-40
percent of homeless population, is also losing some funding.
And that just seems very wrong to me.
Dasia: At first I got some part time jobs. I wasn't paid
for three weeks because they had a problem with my preferred
name versus my legal name. I've since changed my legal name,
all my documents, but I'm starting my own business to escape
transphobia. I am house cleaner and I am good at it. It's
awesome.
Kaylee: I tried to get a job [after my parents cut me off],
but that posed to be another difficult challenge. There's
nothing I can do legally about the hiring discrimination that
I faced. Because the evidence is seeing the hiring
professional come out with all this little books, looking
over the papers as he was going to ask me questions about [my
application]. Looking up and seeing who I am, and then losing
all that energy and giving me half of an interview because he
didn't want to. There's nothing I can prove there, but it's
everything that I feel to know that I was not allowed to get
a job in that establishment. I went back to school at this
time. Tried to get a job on top of school and ended up
working at McDonalds because they're very easy to get a job
with. I worked there for seven months until it culminated on
me that all the bullying I was getting from co-workers and
customers was too taxing on my mental health. The entire last
week that I worked at McDonalds, I remember just crying in
the washroom because there nothing else to do. This is not a
way that anyone deserves to make money. To make $7.25 an hour
to try to feed themselves.
Zaylore: As a labor and employment law attorney, I still
see discrimination cases and handle discrimination cases from
individuals within the LGBTQ community. Whether it's
employers not providing reasonable accommodations to
individuals who are HIV positive, or terminating employees
once they find they are HIV positive, or outing transgender
employees at their facilities. And when they report to HR,
they end up getting retaliated against in regards to that. So
this is still an issue, even though we have laws on book
protecting individual. We still need the support from our
local officials regards to making this type of things get
addressed and taken care of.
Emily Ott: My specific concern is the First Amendment
Defense Act and the similar bills that are popping up around
the United States, one of which is here in Minnesota. I feel
that these bills set a dangerous precedent. These bills will
allow blatant and open discrimination against members of our
community based solely on individuals saying, ``I have a
religious objection to who you are,'' or to how you live your
life, or who you love. I cannot think of anything more
potentially damaging to the concept of American liberty and
freedom and justice for all people than these bills. It sets
a dangerous precedent for future minority groups that might
also run afoul. For example, what about Wiccan people? Do I
throw them out of my business because I don't agree with
their philosophies and their religious beliefs, and they're
objectionable to me? Do I refuse service as a medical
provider to somebody because, ``I'm sorry but I can't treat
your child you're a lesbian couple and I don't agree with
your lifestyle''? These things are happening already, and I
fear what this does and what it can do to the United States
of America and to its people if these bills are allowed to
become law.
Dasia: We're facing insurance things in this state that
would prevent me from my HRT, which I have been on for seven
months. It's good insurance, Minnesota state insurance. She
works for MNSCU, Minnesota State Colleges and Universities.
It's awesome insurance. Apparently it's not going to be soon.
Dave: I am an employee of the University of Minnesota. I
work in the Educational Psychology department. I have great
health insurance. Last year my daughter was lucky enough,
after being on the waiting list for over a year at the Center
for Sexual Health, to finally get in. The second they ran my
insurance, they wanted to let me know that there was a
categorical exclusion for any kind of medical intervention.
While that is many years down the road, that's something
we need to fix. If the University of Minnesota can't provide
coverage for the services they offer as an institution to
their employees, something's wrong. The Center for Sexual
Health is leading in the Midwest as the expert location for
affirming Trans care; all the service that they either
provide or refer to should be covered by our insurance.
Kaylee: I fought very hard to get HRT programs in Winona
because, before I petitioned Semcac, which is essentially our
Planned Parenthood, about getting hormone procedures in their
office, we would either have to go up to Rochester, an hour
away, or down to Lacrosse, out of state and forty minutes
away. So I tried to get those local and I succeeded. And now,
I get to pay about $80 a month for hormones, which is not
doable for me. Right now, I take about half the recommended
dosage. I skip days; I skip weeks at a time because I don't
have the money to take care of myself because all the things
I've had to sacrifice financially have culminated on top of
another and stacked. Now, it's difficult. Even getting here
was challenging. I've counted every penny that every bus has
required of me. $50 for round trip train ticket to here.
$2.25 for the bus here, but I had to pay $3 because I didn't
have any quarters. Bottled of water cost $1.25. I'm counting
all this in my head; keeping it on track so I don't go
negative before my next paycheck. HRT is described as very
big challenge I can't do.
Nicole Vanderheiden: I am a queer trans woman. As a direct
result of my trans status, I have experienced family
rejection, homelessness, hunger, and sexual assault,
discrimination in education, employment, and health care. I
am going to talk about my experience as a veteran in the U.S.
Forces. Like many other trans folk who serve in the military
at a proportion twice that of the general population, I
served honorably in the U.S. Air force. I get my treatment
solely from the Department of Veteran Affairs, which
currently operates under blanket exclusion for transgender
surgical care. It is unconscionable that in 2017 we have a
federal agency that is not only failing to prohibit
discrimination, but also operating under policies that
prescribe discrimination. I really want to ask you to take
action to end those polices, and to prevent our federal
agencies from discriminating against trans folks.
Luci Peterson: I am transgender, male-to-female, I am
autistic, Jewish, and just recently was hired as a para-
educator with a great company. The real reason I want to
share and testify, whenever it comes to the LGBT community in
conversation, wherever I go, I experience what I consider a
gap in the conversation. That gap is around disabilities. The
one I can specifically speak about is autism. I volunteer a
lot with Autism Society of Minnesota, Awesome.org, and AUSM.
I just think that it is very dangerous for those people out
there, because there is a lot of nonverbal autistic people
and then people of all types of disabilities that, depending
on where they are living or what their current situation is,
they may not have the freedom that able-bodied people do to
speak for themselves. We're trying to get a mentorship
program going for autistic adults like me to mentor younger
autistic people, and I'd like to see more programs like that
in the LGBT community, where no matter what your other
identities are that LGBT adults could come along LGBT youth.
Showing them how they have coped and managed to live a
healthy and successful life.
Roxanne Anderson: I want to talk a little bit about where I
work and spend time at 3405 Chicago, The Minnesota
Transgender Health Organization and Coalition. We're formed
by and for transgender folks. We're the only transgender led
by-and-for 501(c)3 nonprofit in Minnesota. We do a lot of
work, and we've been doing that work since 2007. We offer
services that are inclusive, and serve about 165 Trans and
gender non-conforming folk throughout the week. We do six
support groups. Our shot clinic serves over 40 people in the
six hours that we are open during the week. We spend a lot of
time working with Dave [Edwards], and others with the
Minnesota Department of Education to be gender-inclusive in
schools, and to insure that trans and gender non-conforming
can mark their identities on the student survey, something we
need to make sure we keep in place in Minnesota. We do harm
reduction through syringe exchange; we have food selves,
clothe shelves, gender gear. We do shot assistance, and we do
that all through the support of volunteers. We do that all
under a budget under $30,000 a year. That sounds awesome, and
it is not sustainable. It means that everybody that gives
their time, and energy, and effort to MTHC does so without
pay. We are located at 3405 Chicago which also houses Cafe
Southside, which employs at about 80-85 percent trans and
non-gender conforming folk. I don't know if there is any
other place in the whole state that can say that the majority
of the people that they employ are trans. It also houses Rare
Productions, which is an art and entertainment for LGBT folk
of color. The reason I am mentioning this is because like
lots of folks have said, we're in jeopardy. We don't have a
lot of funding, and we don't get a lot of support from
foundations or big business. I think to the point of
economics it's really important to know that those
organizations that are specially supporting trans folk, and
figuring out how to support them.