Madam Speaker, I rise to remember Martha Hays Cooper, known as ``Ookie,'' a remarkable woman and friend and the wife of our colleague Jim Cooper, who passed away last Thursday in Nashville. I include in the Record for history her husband's…
Madam Speaker, I rise to remember Martha Hays Cooper, known as ``Ookie,'' a remarkable woman and friend and the wife of our colleague Jim Cooper, who passed away last Thursday in Nashville. I include in the Record for history her husband's words in tribute:
Martha Hays Cooper died peacefully at home in Nashville on
Thursday, February 4, after years of struggling with
Alzheimer's. ``Ookie'' was married to Representative Jim
Cooper for almost 36 years, mother of their three amazing
children, Mary (Scott Gallisdorfer), Jamie, and Hayes, and
grandmother of the incomparable Jay.
Martha was born on September 13, 1954, the second child of
the late Dr. A.V. Hays and Dr. Martha Hays Taylor of
Gulfport, Mississippi. Her siblings, Art Hays (Debbie) of
Gaithersburg, MD, and Mary Hays Peller (Steve) of New
Orleans, survive her. Martha graduated from Sweet Briar
College in 1976 and from Mississippi State in 1980 with an
M.S. in ornithology. Her first job was in a cubbyhole in the
attic of the Natural History Museum, the Bird Division of the
Smithsonian, staffing the first two editions of the million-
selling National Geographic Field Guide to the Birds of North
America. An adventuresome soul, Martha smoked cigars in
swamps to repel mosquitoes, made lifelong friends in Buenos
Aires, taught children and studied Puffins for the Quebec-
Labrador Foundation, protected Least Terns on Gulf of Mexico
beaches, camped in the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge, and
worked the Galapagos Islands for World Wildlife Fund, all
while keeping an African-Grey parrot named Baroot in her
kitchen.
Martha lived in Georgetown and drove a 1971 Robin's-egg-
blue Volvo P1800E when she met Jim, the youngest congressman
in the U.S., who proposed at a White House Christmas party.
Part Audrey Hepburn, Ali MacGraw, and Penelope Cruz, Martha
was wary of politics until she lived in Shelbyville with
Jim's mother for a few months in 1984 to manage Jim's first
re-election campaign. The experiment worked. They married on
April 6, 1985, followed by the birth of Mary Argentine in
1990, John James Audubon in 1991, and Hayes Hightower in
1995. Martha loved Mardi Gras, Galatoires (``the big G''),
hurricanes and snow, peonies, Little Cayman Island, Ernie
Banks, homemade popovers, Radnor Lake, friends in the Query
and Centennial Clubs, Aretha Franklin and Paul McCartney,
Standard Poodles (Ruby, Sirius Black, and Romeo), Cicadas,
golf, City House's belly-ham pizza, families of Crows, Prince
Charles, her Cardinal-red 2003 Mini-Cooper, and the
Hermitage, serving as Regent of the Ladies' Hermitage
Association. Her favorite president was Barack Obama;
favorite bird: Upupa Epops.
Martha's charm and optimism were heroic, eclipsing her
illness. She ALWAYS smiled and said thank you. She loved car
travel; on bumpy roads she'd say ``this makes me wiggle.'' In
recent years, she drew wobbly hearts on everything . . . with
a Sharpie when she could find one.
The family is grateful to Martha's main caregiver, Sandy
Mathers, her friend of 25 years, as well as newer friends,
Heather Tavasti and Alyssa Action. The team at Alive Hospice
was godsent.''