Mr. Speaker, I include in the Record an op-ed by Dr. Oglesby Young as published in the Concord Monitor. my turn: paid family leave is the investment of a lifetime A pediatric colleague once said, ``We can invest in early childhood or we…
Mr. Speaker, I include in the Record an op-ed by Dr. Oglesby Young as published in the Concord Monitor.
my turn: paid family leave is the investment of a lifetime
A pediatric colleague once said, ``We can invest in early
childhood or we can build more prisons 20 years later at a
much greater cost to society.''
A bill, presently before the state Legislature (HB 628), is
a plan for an Employer Based Insurance Program to provide
``paid family leave.'' I believe this is an opportunity to
invest in early childhood in order to create a healthier,
more productive and caring society.
Barry Brazelton, now a 95-year-old Boston pediatrician and
researcher, established a half-century ago how critical
newborn bonding is for the baby and the parents. The
development of ``attachment'' from the start of life,
profoundly affects the relationship between the child and his
or her new parents.
It follows that the first few years, even the first few
months, of life lasts forever. We have a compelling biologic
model of why kids who have experienced the toxic stress of
neglect--the absence of love, as simple as cuddling--have
trouble learning. A Harvard pediatrician, Jack Shonkoff,
states simply, ``We can modify behavior late, but we can't
rewire disrupted brain circuits.''
Years ago, I remember seeing the MRI scans of the brains of
children who were completely neglected in an Eastern European
orphanage. There were large areas of atrophy (no brain
tissue), which had resulted from a lack of love and
stimulation of these children early in their lives.
As obstetricians, we see new moms routinely for their
postpartum visits six weeks after the delivery of their
babies. Most are just learning how to be a parent. Their
bodies are still healing, while they are torn between the
challenges of being a new mom and returning to the demands of
an old job.
I realized early in my career that we could devote
ourselves to delivering healthy babies, but it would mean
nothing if we did not care for the mom and newborn when we
sent them home from the hospital. Those of us who have
children know that no matter how well-educated or how well-
motivated, the experience of having a first child at times
can be overwhelming.
Babies are not born with instructions. We all want to be
good parents, but not all of us have had good modeling, and
not all of us have the resources to be the parents we want to
be.
Many new moms are single today with no support.
Grandparents work and they often live elsewhere. In my
lifetime neighborhoods have changed. There is no longer a
woman down the street who has had six kids and welcomes the
opportunity to help a new mom as she was once helped. For
these reasons, 20 years ago, we established the Healthy
Beginnings Endowment at Concord Hospital, raising $1.3
million to award grants annually to Concord area programs
that support and educate new parents.
Physicians have been the most generous donors to this
endowment because they understand the wisdom of investing in
early childhood to prevent adult problems. The upshot is that
children who are undermined
early are much more likely in later years to suffer mental
illness, heart disease, obesity, diabetes and other physical
ailments.
The bill before us, HB 628, would give time and financial
support at very little cost, to permit new parents to
establish an attachment to their baby that would pay
dividends over the lifetime of their child. We are one of the
few developed countries in the world that does not provide
this benefit to new parents.
In England, my daughter-in-law was given nine months of
paid maternity leave when she had our granddaughter. In
France, our former exchange student was awarded six months of
paid leave, as was her husband, following the birth of each
of their three children. In Germany, a close friend's
daughter had one year of paid maternity leave and her husband
three months after their first baby. It should not surprise
us that the people of those countries are healthier and live
longer than us (even though Europeans drink and smoke more
than us). And, remarkably their health care costs amount to
half of what we spend per person in this country.
The implication is that the most cost-effective window to
bring about change in the health and welfare of a country
isn't high school or even kindergarten. It is the early
childhood years, and it can be done at a relatively low cost,
when compared to the later financial burden of adult health
care.
Presently, we have a ravaging substance abuse crisis into
which we are pouring millions of dollars to treat and
rehabilitate those afflicted. It seems, almost every week, we
read in the Concord Monitor about another young person whose
life has been lost to overdose. Is there a better example
today that an ``ounce of prevention would save pounds of
cure''?
If we are to have healthy, responsible, kind adults--young
people who choose not to abuse themselves or others--we must
first create kids with a deep sense of self worth, a strong
respect for themselves and others. Adults who love well have
been children who were well-loved. Adults who care deeply
about others and our world were children who were deeply
cared for.
The crucial value of ``paid family leave'' is that it would
it would provide parents to start their child on the path to
a successful adulthood.
I recently read the book Find Me Unafraid: Love, Loss and
Hope in an African Slum. The author, Kennedy Odede, overcame
a late childhood fraught with constant hunger, complete
poverty and physical abuse. He writes, ``As a young child, I
knew how much my mother loved me. When I was on the streets,
I thought of what my mom had told me, that no matter where I
was in the world, if I could see the stars, I should know
that she could see them, too, and I felt her love always.''
Kennedy Odede is an adult now, who has returned to his
impoverished Nairobi slum and created a school for girls and
a community organization called Shining Hope for Communities.
In spite of a cruel childhood, except for his first three
years of life, he has become a successful, productive, happy
adult who is devoted to improving his old neighborhood, his
world. Paid family leave is fundamental to a healthy society
because it provides the framework for a precious, priceless
early childhood--the foundation on which responsible, loving
adults grow. For those of you who believe we cannot afford
paid family leave, I would argue that we can't afford not to
provide paid family leave. The future of our society surely
rests on this wise investment.
(Dr. Oglesby H. Young lives in Concord.)